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[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
The tuna, with some water added for reasons I cannot fathom, seems to be perking her interest for moments at a time so I just keep feeding her a couple of wee flakes at a time. Which seem to be agreeing with the Kittenish tummy. Mine, on the other hand, totally stressed from all this ... stress.
Yup, my healthy work snack ended up in the dog.I doubt it will be for long... Hopefully while on a walk and as unmessy as possible though.
Poor Bartleby. Poor you, Beej...
LOVING Plei's new hair.
HAPPY MEARA AND JEN K DAY!
Em, I kept thinking of things to type as I was reading, and Erin kept saying what I was thinking. We love Erin. It really does get better, but here are a couple of suggestions.
1. What Erin said about assigned seating. You get to assign the seats. You get to change them if need be. They get to EARN the right to choose their own.
2. Start tomorrow's class by leveling with them. Talk about the fact that you want this to be a good year, and you're feeling frustrated at the way the first couple of days went. Tell them that you are the teacher and they can't run the class, but they can be a part of the solution. Tell them also that you're new to the school and could use some allies. Some of the kids will see that as weakness, but you'll get a few who will come up (furtively after class) and offer to help you out.
3. Whenever things get noisy, just stop talking. Stop talking, stop moving, and just look pointedly at the talkers. Wait until there is silence (which there will eventually be). Calmly start talking again. (This technique doesn't work every time, but it definitely works better than yelling most of the time.)
4. Spend a class getting to know them. Do some team-building. It sounds cheesy, but it can really pay off. If you have a good counselor in the school, ask him/her to either give you some suggestions or come observe the class.
5. Find a teacher to be your mentor. This could be your department head or anyone else teaching the same age level. Ask him/her for info about individual students, the class, the school, or things that have worked for him/her in the past. Ask him/her to come observe you and give you feedback and suggestions as well. Note this pattern--the more people you have in your classroom, the better. Your colleagues will save you.
6. Start calling home on kids that are especially obnoxious. Sometimes the parents don't care, but a lot of time they do. Phrase it as a request for help rather than an accusation: "Hello Mr/Ms ___. I'm ___'s math teacher this year, and I've noticed that ___ is having a difficult time settling down to learn. I'm wondering if you could help me to get him/her off to a better start." Etc.
7. This one is the most important and the most difficult to accept. Forgive yourself for not being perfect. Accept that some days you will be convinced that this is the worst job on the planet. But mostly, believe that it will get better. Because it will. I promise.
Besides, I think Erin said it best:
Because teaching is a more societially acceptable form of maschocism than sporting 24/7 bondage tape and a flogger! (If a wee bit less exciting sartorially...)
ETA: Oh Cass and Beej! I'm so sorry about pets' sad tummies.
Mmmm, Stargate 200...
Also, um... wait, was I going to say something? Shoot. Yay beer!
Yay for wee flakes of tuna holding Kittenish interest. May it bloom into actual snarfling.
I doubt it will be for long... Hopefully while on a walk and as unmessy as possible though.
Bless you. The carpet can't stand much more, so on a walk would be optimum...but frankly, I'll get what I deserve.
And poor you with the stress, too. Wears ya to a veritable nub, eh? I'll vibe some extra energy your way.
Mmmm, Stargate 200...I'm with you. My TiFaux taped the wrong thing the first time around and I didn't notice til the next day and so I was hoping that it really, really caught the repeat while I was gone. And? It did.
I think the episode can be summed up by, "Yay beer!" Alternately, "Yay metabeer!"
Must go catch up *everywhere* now.
And can I just say that the level of dedication and wisdom among Buffista teachers is a joy to observe?
After counseling in a DC junior high and hearing the product of decades of an evil system turning what might have started out as good people into raving, cursing, abusing...not!teachers...it's wonderful to see the care you guys put into your work.
Em, sorry if that was information overload. Maybe I should have just yelled, "DOWN WITH DIRTY, ROTTEN KIDS! BAH!"
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3. Whenever things get noisy, just stop talking. Stop talking, stop moving, and just look pointedly at the talkers. Wait until there is silence (which there will eventually be). Calmly start talking again. (This technique doesn't work every time, but it definitely works better than yelling most of the time.)
I can vouch for this method. The kids will do the shushing for you.
3. Whenever things get noisy, just stop talking. Stop talking, stop moving, and just look pointedly at the talkers. Wait until there is silence (which there will eventually be). Calmly start talking again. (This technique doesn't work every time, but it definitely works better than yelling most of the time.)
Yes. This. This is the method that I've always tended to use with kids.
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Hey, anything short of screaming at kids that they are worthless/stupid or telling them that you hate your life and it is all their fault (pretty much direct quotes heard from my counseling office) is likely to impress me.