He doesn't travel well. He's like fine shrimp.

Anya ,'Touched'


Spike's Bitches 32: I think I'm sobering up.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


vw bug - Oct 22, 2006 4:33:20 am PDT #8290 of 10000
Mostly lurking...

Much ~ma to Matt and his family, beth.

And, YAY for Jessica and E! Such exciting news!


Beverly - Oct 22, 2006 5:35:52 am PDT #8291 of 10000
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Question of the weekend - what music do you clean to?

Metallica. Few of StE's old cassettes hanging around. Getting a mad on helps me clean, even if I have to manufacture one. These days, all I really need to do is glance at a headline--any headline--and presto! Mad!


Cass - Oct 22, 2006 5:56:11 am PDT #8292 of 10000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

or there's a frigging cloud in San Diego.
Hey, that's traumatic!

Once, a green snake got in our house. I didn't even know it until I discovered my cat pacing around its carcass, panting and clearly saying, "Would you look at that? WTF is that thing!" She was all upset at having to kill something she didn't even recognize and was not going to eat.
My snake squick was immediately overwhelmed by my giggling... "I killed it. Now what the hell do I do with it?"

Congratulations, Jess and Ethan! Wonderful happy news...

Beth, my ~ma and thoughts are with Matt, his mother and you...

I need a nap before Sunday really starts.


-t - Oct 22, 2006 5:59:36 am PDT #8293 of 10000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I don't have any cleaning music per se. What works to motivate me changes with nmy mood, and I am mercurial. Lately I have been listening to NPR Podcasts - not news, but shows and little bits of shows that I hadn't heard of because my local station only got the news. Or silence, which I occasionally get very into.

Zenkitty, IME the big advantage to Credit Unions is that once you are a member you can get favorable rates for loans (signature loans, car loans, mortgagaes, what have you), so it might be worthwhile to keep a small account there if you are likely to need one o f those. The rates can be better than commercial banks because the Credit Union's purpose is not to make a profit but to provide services to its members, IIRC. kind of a Co-op with money idea.


Amy - Oct 22, 2006 6:07:51 am PDT #8294 of 10000
Because books.

Echoing all the Jessica and Ethan congratulations! I was just thinking the other day, with Matilda safely here and dazzling her parents with her charm, that we didn't have any new Buffista babies to look forward to. And lo, Jessica steps in!

Yes, sometimes it's all about me.

Question of the weekend - what music do you clean to?

I clean to stuff I can sing to. The soundtracks to Oliver or Les Mis or cheesy seventies stuff like Abba. Cleaning at Christmastime is always (marginally) more enjoyable because I can belt out carols while I'm dusting and mopping.

Sending all kinds of ~ma to Matt and his mom, too.


Anne W. - Oct 22, 2006 6:13:50 am PDT #8295 of 10000
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

Question of the weekend - what music do you clean to?

It varies widely, depending on my mood, but it tends towards folk rock and world beat with some and hard rock thrown in there. Also, I generally put on one album and let it repeat rather than go through a string of albums or putting a larger playlist on shuffle.

Recent cleaning music includes: The Rolling Stones' "Beggar's Banquet," Afro-Celt Sound System, Al Stewart's "The Year of the Cat," Ted Hoagland's "The Hoagland Conspiracy," and Bruce Cockburn's "Breakfast in New Orleans, Dinner in Timbuktu."


Beverly - Oct 22, 2006 6:16:49 am PDT #8296 of 10000
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

We haven't dealt with banks since we were eligible for the State Employees Credit Union, or Seekoo, as we affectionately call it. DH has obtained consolidation or home-improvement loans of less than $5,000 simply by walking in and talking with one of the loan officers he knows, with no collateral. Small percentage interest-bearing checking accounts with no minimum balance, low-interest credit cards, online account management, friendly local service and no-hassle "banking" statewide. I've cashed cross-continent SECU checks when out-of-state bank checks might have been refused. I know banks have some, if not all, of these features, but I can't say enough about our credit union.


-t - Oct 22, 2006 6:22:58 am PDT #8297 of 10000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I have been careful to keep a few bucks in the credit union account that my parents opened for me when I was a kid. As all of my other banks have been swallowed up by BoA and Chase and consequently charged me more fees for fewer services, I now bank exclusively at the credit union AIFG. Unfortunately, they don't do mortgages, so I'm gonna have to go back out into the wide world when it's time to buy a house.


beth b - Oct 22, 2006 6:34:03 am PDT #8298 of 10000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

-t, you might want to look at techcu.com - they are no longer federal - becasue they wanted to broaden thier customer base. I'm not sure I am thrilled with them,( there were too many problems signing the paperwork for the new HELOC), but I do like them better than any bank I've delt with .


Zenkitty - Oct 22, 2006 6:35:32 am PDT #8299 of 10000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I shall open a savings account at the credit union tomorrow, then. Sounds good.