Yes. Men like sports. Men watch the action movie, they eat of the beef, and enjoy to look at the bosoms. A thousand years of avenging our wrongs and that's all you've learned?

Xander ,'End of Days'


Spike's Bitches 32: I think I'm sobering up.  

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sj - Oct 04, 2006 4:32:10 am PDT #5935 of 10000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

WTF?

if I'm exhausted and in pain, it's going to end up affecting the psych side.

Of course you will. With depression (at least for me) it is an endless cycle of tired=depressed=tired. How could he not see this? That is just so aggravating, vw. You're in pain and that is not acceptable. Can you change doctors? Can I go hit him with a clue by four?


Amy - Oct 04, 2006 4:33:40 am PDT #5936 of 10000
Because books.

And, somewhat unrelated, he will not allow the prescribing of any migraine medications.

Is he talking about preventive stuff? Surely it would be okay to have some of the immediate-action stuff to take, wouldn't it? (There is, theoretically, immediate-action stuff, right? That you take when one hits?)


vw bug - Oct 04, 2006 4:36:05 am PDT #5937 of 10000
Mostly lurking...

Is he talking about preventive stuff? Surely it would be okay to have some of the immediate-action stuff to take, wouldn't it? (There is, theoretically, immediate-action stuff, right? That you take when one hits?)

Nope. He's talking about abortives and pain meds. "This one causes mood changes." "This one is dangerous and shouldn't be prescribed outside of the hospital." "This one I just don't like." There aren't any he'll allow me to take. Fortunately, the migraines haven't been bad lately, but still. I'm not in a place where I can just sleep them off. I've got a life! I need to be able to get rid of them when they do come on.


sj - Oct 04, 2006 4:37:57 am PDT #5938 of 10000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

That's the other thing he should be worrying about, vw. If you are in pain and can't get stuff done that you need to get done, you're going to become more anxious and depressed.


Cass - Oct 04, 2006 4:39:21 am PDT #5939 of 10000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

His exact words were, “If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it.”
But...but...how is it not broke?
This? Broke. Want us to thwack him for you? See if we can convince him that "not broke" != "shiny"?

I should not be awake yet. Going to go for the first nap of the day before dawn today apparently.


§ ita § - Oct 04, 2006 4:48:47 am PDT #5940 of 10000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

vw, I think he shouldn't be trying to separate the psychological from the physical. I mean, if you can't astral project, what business does he have splitting the two?


Lee - Oct 04, 2006 5:08:43 am PDT #5941 of 10000
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

What ita said, vw.

It's not okay for him to rule out all the migraine meds, and you shouldn't have to wait 2 months to talk to him about it.

In completely different news,

Hey Suzi, Want Spike?


SuziQ - Oct 04, 2006 5:29:38 am PDT #5942 of 10000
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Hey Suzi, Want Spike?

Tempting.

I'm working from home this morning. At 10 (game time) I hit the road (tune in the radio broadcast) for Sacramento to pick up my mom! She gets to come home today!

She still has a way to go with her recovery, but this is a big first step.


Nora Deirdre - Oct 04, 2006 5:31:09 am PDT #5943 of 10000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Suzi, that's fantastic! Earlier than previously thought, correct? Wonderful, wonderful news. I'll keep vibing that things continue to improve.


SuziQ - Oct 04, 2006 5:34:26 am PDT #5944 of 10000
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

It is earlier than I expected - but she sounds so much better than she did on Sunday - so hopefully it is not too soon. It is a heck of a drive for follow-ups, though.