When we landed here you said you needed a few days to get space worthy again and is there somethin' wrong with your bunk?

Mal ,'Out Of Gas'


Spike's Bitches 32: I think I'm sobering up.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Gris - Oct 02, 2006 6:12:38 pm PDT #5793 of 10000
Hey. New board.

Relationships, for me, tend to be serious. I'm not sure I know how to do a non-serious one, or if I'd want to.

I'm pressuring myself to know now for her benefit as much as mine, because I think she's really starting to like me, and trust me. As is too often the case with smart, somewhat quirky girls, she hasn't had much luck with relationships in the past, and I don't want to be another mark in her "Not Worthy of Love" evidence book.

Which is probably overdramatic.

I don't think I'm leading her on, but I'm worried I might be doing so accidentally. It's happened before. I could fix, if it's happening, by actually talking to her, making it clear how strongly I feel (or don't feel) in actual communication. A strange concept, in the dating world.


ChiKat - Oct 02, 2006 6:15:39 pm PDT #5794 of 10000
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

Can you talk to her about it so that she knows where you stand? You like her and you like hanging out with her, but you're not feeling that smitten thing. It could develop, it could not develop, but you want to keep spending time with her.

Unless, of course, you don't want to keep spending time with her and this nix all that!


sj - Oct 02, 2006 6:23:40 pm PDT #5795 of 10000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Gris, you're sexually compatible and you enjoy spending time with her, so I would just tell her that you are not sure you are looking for a serious long term commitment right now(which to me sounds a lot better than I am not sure if I can head over heels for you yet), but you want to see where this leads. Also, you're young and I think you should take some of the pressure off yourself. However, at 29 I am in my first long term relationship of my life, so take my advice fwiw.


Gris - Oct 02, 2006 6:39:01 pm PDT #5796 of 10000
Hey. New board.

Yep. Talking is good. Gonna do that. Now, gonna go to bed. Should've gotten more work done today. Still sick. Tomorrow will suck. Bah.


sj - Oct 02, 2006 6:44:07 pm PDT #5797 of 10000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Feel better, Gris. I finished my schoolwork and am headed to be now too. Night, Bitches!


Aims - Oct 02, 2006 7:37:54 pm PDT #5798 of 10000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Well talk about a cocksucker.

I ran out of quilt squares.


SuziQ - Oct 02, 2006 7:39:55 pm PDT #5799 of 10000
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Well talk about a cocksucker.

Not gonna say it. Not gonna say it.


billytea - Oct 02, 2006 7:40:39 pm PDT #5800 of 10000
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Well talk about a cocksucker. I ran out of quilt squares.

The little ones loved the old dear, but still their parents had come to dread the weekly visit to Grandma's.


Lee - Oct 02, 2006 7:40:49 pm PDT #5801 of 10000
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

ooh, ooh, can I?


Aims - Oct 02, 2006 7:41:27 pm PDT #5802 of 10000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Shut it, you.