{{{Nora}}} It's not your fault.
We're still working on a plan, but so far it involves being sent to prison and becoming somebody's bitch.
Fred ,'Just Rewards (2)'
Spike's Bitches 32: I think I'm sobering up.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
sj - Oct 02, 2006 9:03:06 am PDT #5712 of 10000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Amy - Oct 02, 2006 9:03:19 am PDT #5713 of 10000
Because books.
Nora, it's natural to feel so many ways at once, especially if it's a longstanding friendship. The thing is, even if she's sick and hurting, you're part of the equation, too, and getting nasty emails hurts no matter what. Don't do anything until you feel you're ready, and in the meantime don't beat yourself up for feeling more than one way about it. It's not a black-and-white situation by a longshot.
Sending lots of health~ma to SA's friend.
vw bug - Oct 02, 2006 9:10:48 am PDT #5714 of 10000
Mostly lurking...
Nora, insent in a minute.
Nicole - Oct 02, 2006 9:10:50 am PDT #5715 of 10000
I'm getting the pig!
Nora, hon, maybe you could type out what the anger ball part of you would REALLY like to say to her right now. Let go of some of that anger by typing it all out and not holding back even a little bit. Act as if you're actually going to send it by re-reading it a few times for flow and content and changing whatever you feel needs changed. And then delete it. Or save it in a What I'd Really Like To Say Right Now folder and delete it next week.
That's what I've had to do in the past in order to move beyond the anger. It usually tends to help.
Oh, and {{{Nora}}}!
{{{SA}}}
{{{Kristin}}}
{{{Bitches}}}
Nora Deirdre - Oct 02, 2006 9:10:50 am PDT #5716 of 10000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
Good news: the lovely ergomatic chair I ordered has arrived. YAY!
Bad news: I have to put it together and tehre are no instuctions. BOO!
Worst news: the other admins are giving me stinkeye because I have a new chair. ::whimper::
vw bug - Oct 02, 2006 9:11:10 am PDT #5717 of 10000
Mostly lurking...
vw bug - Oct 02, 2006 9:11:16 am PDT #5718 of 10000
Mostly lurking...
Polter-Cow - Oct 02, 2006 9:17:44 am PDT #5719 of 10000
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!
{{{{{{{{Nora}}}}}}}}}
Cass - Oct 02, 2006 9:19:28 am PDT #5720 of 10000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
Or save it in a What I'd Really Like To Say Right Now folderI have one of those! I make sure that the To: field is empty now though cause I accidentally sent one once.
Of course accidental sending is also how I told my parents that I was moving to Portland.
You'd think I would have learned by now. But, no... The button just looks so clickable and so I click.
vw bug - Oct 02, 2006 9:24:14 am PDT #5721 of 10000
Mostly lurking...
Yay! My crap paper is written! Now to pack and get ready to go home.