When you look back at this, in the three seconds it'll take you to turn to dust, I think you'll find the mistake was touching my stuff.

Buffy ,'Lessons'


Natter 46: The FIGHTIN' 46  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Topic!Cindy - Sep 18, 2006 6:47:53 am PDT #8623 of 10001
What is even happening?

So all those "Stay gold, Ponyboy" jokes aren't going to mean much to you, huh?

I know enough about it--stuff I just absorbed from the atmosphere. I took "Stay cool, Soda Pop," to be a Hinton reference, when it was used on Veronica Mars, even though I've never read the book. I also remember That Was Then, This is Now, and Rumble Fish, although I've never read them, either. I know about greasers and socs, even. I'm not sure how I missed them.

Gronk. Just got woken up by EM calling. Emmett's got a sore throat that she deems worthy of a sickday. So I've got to go fetch him. Plus my plans are shot for the day. Bother.

Oh, no. Sorry, Hec. I hope Emmett is feeling better soon, and that it's just a quick virus, or even allergies. My mother probably implemented her No-Fever/No-Sickday rule when I was about Emmett's age. So far, I have mostly had to fight with my children to keep them home, when they are sick.

Julia's the only one who's ever try to fake sick to date, so we had a heart to heart. My rule is: If you've had good attendance, and you need a mental health day, I'll probably let you have one. Don't fake sick, because thinking you're sick makes me worry.


Lee - Sep 18, 2006 6:50:30 am PDT #8624 of 10001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Thanks for all the birthday wishes, folks!

I really really want to go to back to sleep, or spend the day on the sofa. If people at work didn't already know I was in Vegas this weekend, I'd consider taking a sick day, but I don't want them to think I'm too hung over to come in.


beekaytee - Sep 18, 2006 6:58:12 am PDT #8625 of 10001
Compassionately intolerant

Julia's the only one who's ever try to fake sick to date, so we had a heart to heart. My rule is: If you've had good attendance, and you need a mental health day, I'll probably let you have one. Don't fake sick, because thinking you're sick makes me worry.

This is some awesome parenting. And a great lesson about getting needs met without having to be sneaky. Wish a lot of my clients could have gotten that message early on.


Jesse - Sep 18, 2006 7:00:29 am PDT #8626 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

WGN is running Homicide from the beginning, it looks like. The pilot's on right now.

I have never understood why Homicide wasn't more popular in syndication. I heard that when they showed a L&O crossover on TNT, the Homicide half got better ratings than the L&O half.


Jesse - Sep 18, 2006 7:00:34 am PDT #8627 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Sue - Sep 18, 2006 7:00:55 am PDT #8628 of 10001
hip deep in pie

Anyhoo I have a 2:30 massage and then I am getting a pedi and then I am going shoe shopping AND then I am going to have a cold beverage outside and people watch.

Oh God, that sounds lovely.

I had a houseguest all weekend, and now I'm sleep deprived and fighting a headache. But did the headache cause the sleep deprivation or did the sleep deprivation cause the headache?


Cass - Sep 18, 2006 7:01:11 am PDT #8629 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

My rule is: If you've had good attendance, and you need a mental health day, I'll probably let you have one. Don't fake sick, because thinking you're sick makes me worry.
Love. Cindy.


sarameg - Sep 18, 2006 7:05:04 am PDT #8630 of 10001

If you've had good attendance, and you need a mental health day, I'll probably let you have one.

Had this been applied to me, I would never have attended school on Thursdays. I dreaded and hated PE squaredance day with such a passion that very often I did end up with a stomach ache.

It took me years to get over my dislike of Thursdays in general. Damn Ms. Krauth! (My mom tells me she's still in the business of terrorizing elementary students and generally being an exceedingly unpleasent individual.)


§ ita § - Sep 18, 2006 7:06:44 am PDT #8631 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Every now and again I'd fake a sick day and say I had a headache. I knew when I did this I'd get a headache, because that's the sort of fiercely literal kid I was, but sometimes it was just worth it.

I never puked from illness, very rarely got fevers, and still haven't broken a bone. All my illness involved my mother taking it on faith. But when your kid starts getting migraines at 8, I guess you just have to get used to that sort of thing.


Jars - Sep 18, 2006 7:10:26 am PDT #8632 of 10001

I was sick quite a bit when I was a kid, so I always knew what symptoms to push when I wanted a day off. Once I got to fourteen or fifteen though, my parents would just let me have the days when I wanted them. I'm guessing if my grades had started going down they wouldn't have, but by the time I was in my last year I was probably taking a day off a week.