wholesome - practically Swedish - approach to sex

The Swedish are kinkless? I didn't know this.

The Swedish are kinkless? I didn't know this.

Probably just in my imagination. They seem so darned wholesome about it. Not nearly repressed enought to build up a serious kink.

Inconveniently not here, and not easily accessible either. I may have to send Hec on a culinary expedition; I can think of a couple of places semi-nearby that probably have it, but right now I have about as much chance of successfully walking there and back as I have of walking to the moon.

Also, ew ew ew. I just looked closely at the computer keyboard I've been away from for over a month, and I'm almost positive there is a mouse turd crusted on the side of the J key. Which neatly solves the tiramasalata craving, as it's now entirely possible that I may never eat again.

Strega, I lived in Rockville for 4 years until we decided to buy a house. Now I'm in Frederick. Damn housing prices spiraling out of control.

Yeah. When I was condo-shopping someone was advising me that the housing bubble would burst and blah blah, and I was just like, "Around here? In my lifetime?"

MCPS said she will no longer work in any school in the county

Oh, I had no doubt about that. I think it's the combination of craziness and, I dunno, naiveté that fascinates me. How long can you work in Montgomery County before you realize that we tilt to the left just a tad? And that Gaithersburg contains more than a few people who speak languages besides English? It's like going to Capitol Hill and being shocked by all the old white men in bad suits.

I just looked closely at the computer keyboard I've been away from for over a month, and I'm almost positive there is a mouse turd crusted on the side of the J key.

Maybe the mouse is trying to spell out a message.

Not nearly repressed enought to build up a serious kink.

Kink needs repression? I guess if everything's mainstream then nothing is kinky. Is that what you mean?

Kink needs repression?

I think pressure leads to warping. I'm sure you can be born kinky, but I think a good Catholic upbringing will really bring it on. That which is forbidden takes on super exciting taboo power.

I guess if everything's mainstream then nothing is kinky. Is that what you mean?

I do mean that also. Though the Folsom Street Fair is fairly mainstream for San Francisco and it still seems kinky to see somebody being lead down the street wearing a hood and a leash in the middle of the afternoon.

So if to a Swede everything's perfectly acceptable in bed (I'm not of the opinion that kink needs pressure, myself), saying someone's as kink-free as a Swede just means they come by it easily. Everything is wholesome.

Which reminds me of a question--for some reason I'd assumed that the reason homely men can succeed in straight porn is because male consumers are likely to have a hangup about watching pretty (and therefore drawing attention to themselves) men onscreen. But I was recently told that some guy named Peter North revolutionised the look, and that guys are now not remotely cast for plainness. Hot is fine.

Is this true?

I've heard the reason that homely guys are used in porn is because they use whoever has the ability to get it up on command and fuck all day for the multiple takes, and that's just a limited pool of guys to start with.

saying someone's as kink-free as a Swede just means they come by it easily. Everything is wholesome.

That's not really what I'm saying. I'm arguing that having a healthy attitude toward sex (which I am attributing to the Swedes without any proof) precludes kinkiness. Kinkiness requires some pathology. Without the bent element, then there's no kink.

Dear People at work.

OH DEAR LORD. Please stop being so annoying. You're giving me a headache, and I want to smoosh you all.

OKTHNXBYE.

Lee