Yay for The Scream!
This makes me unreasonably happy. Good to know it's back where it belongs.
I've yet to figure a way around the hours in the day issue. Now that the kids stay up later it just makes it harder. I have to get up at 5:45 to get Brendon to his bus by 6:40. I'd love to go to bed at 10 when the kids go to bed, but I need some unwind time. Catching up on the weekends really doesn't work.
5:45am get Brendon going. 6:45am my time for exercise or whatever 7:45am get Bobby going 8:45am drop Bobby and go to work. 3:15pm Brendon's bus drops him off, but he doesn't need me anymore (yippee!) 4:30pm Bobby's bus drops him at the city pool and he either goes swimming for a while, or calls me to pick him up. 6:00pm or so try and leave the office and get home and cook dinner. I do homework stuff with Brendon while DH does homework stuff with Bobby. (new plan this year) 9:00pm kick the boys off electronic stuff and send them to their rooms (yeah, like that works) 10:00 tell the boys lights out. Do laundry, dishes, 50 million other things. Go to bed, read 3 paragraphs, fall asleep.
The boys do chores, like their own laundry, but any parent will tell you it is actually more work to get kids to do chores than to do them yourself. Still, I make them do stuff.
I would give anything for more time. Working at home helped in the saving of travel time, but I was less focused.
In other words, no answers from the chickee. Working dad has the same schedule and issues as me really except he stays up a bit later and gets up a bit later.
I need like 5 hours of self time a day! And, like, a whole weekend day. I think if I had an SO around and we were both doing things quietly or talking a bit, that would be OK. Maybe.
This is so me. Oh my yes.
The hours in my day are jacked up, and I have no family around. I can't even imagine trying to be there for them and here for me as well as earn a living.
Drop to two or three times, and get some in on the weekend.
Weekend are ironically tougher than weekdays due to the lack of schedule. But I've though of getting up early on weekend days as well to get in exercise. My goal is five days of exercise a week so that would give me two spare mornings. I tend to skip a weekday a week as it is, because I'm too tired to get up. I want to do better than four days a week because my dad isn't having a lot of health problems and think I'll go the same way unless I have good health habits.
This is why I KNOW I am an introvert, despite all my cow-orkers protests-- I need like 5 hours of self time a day! And, like, a whole weekend day.
Totally. And I definitely don't do a half hour of cleaning my house a day, and all I do is come home from work!
That's awesome about The Scream.
This is why I KNOW I am an introvert, despite all my cow-orkers protests-- I need like 5 hours of self time a day! And, like, a whole weekend day. I think if I had an SO around and we were both doing things quietly or talking a bit, that would be OK. Maybe.
This is me as well. Not quite so much each day, but yeah. Thankfully my girlfriend understands and is willing to be accomodating when I tell her I need a weekend day to decompress from time to time. She'd rather have less time with me than have me be cranky due to oversocialization.
and think I'll go the same way unless I have good health habits.
Fair point. But not all health problems are physical.