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Natter 46: The FIGHTIN' 46  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


sumi - Aug 31, 2006 6:19:25 am PDT #5354 of 10001
Art Crawl!!!

Top Chef fans: news about season 2.


Gudanov - Aug 31, 2006 6:20:15 am PDT #5355 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping

If the problem is lack of "Gud time," would you feel comfortable skipping the exercise one morning a week to do something else just for you?

That's a pretty good idea, regardless of sleep time.


Jesse - Aug 31, 2006 6:23:13 am PDT #5356 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Well, a half hour of doing misc. cleaning stuff isn't really a burden. Cut that out, and I'm not doing jack around the house except on the weekend. So I can't really complain out that.

You don't have to be "complaining" to see that as a place you could let go of part of your current routine to free up the time for things you think are more important, whether it's sleeping or even sitting around, honestly. I am a big believer in the importance of sitting-around time.


Gudanov - Aug 31, 2006 6:30:28 am PDT #5357 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping

Right now I'm doing okay so no sympathy really needed, but I've got these two competing things coming up. My wife wanting me to get more sleep, and starting up a side business but one that is serious enough to provide work for my disabled BIL who is having trouble getting work.


Matt the Bruins fan - Aug 31, 2006 6:51:50 am PDT #5358 of 10001
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Maybe I'm being too judgemental, but wanting you to start up a home business capable of employing a third party when you're already pressed for time by your current job and household responsibilities just doesn't sound reasonable (or possible) to me, Gud.


Jesse - Aug 31, 2006 6:56:45 am PDT #5359 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

It really does just sound impossible, pretty much.


Gudanov - Aug 31, 2006 6:58:54 am PDT #5360 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping

Yeah, I can't think of a good way to work things out. I like Fred Pete's idea to get a little self-time, but I don't know how I do all this and increase sleep time too.


§ ita § - Aug 31, 2006 7:01:34 am PDT #5361 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

You exercise every weekday morning, Gud? Lose it. Drop to two or three times, and get some in on the weekend.


Sophia Brooks - Aug 31, 2006 7:01:48 am PDT #5362 of 10001
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

This might be a dumb question, but are you sleepy? Because maybe if you can figure out a way to get 7 hours every night, instead of 5-7 hours that you are getting, it might be doable. But not if you are also starting a business. Then it seems the only available time would be sleep time.


Fred Pete - Aug 31, 2006 7:02:56 am PDT #5363 of 10001
Ann, that's a ferret.

Actually the question I deleted asked whether your problem was more lack of sleep or lack of self-time.

And I agree with the others -- if you're stretched already, adding the responsibilities of a home business isn't an option.