Wondering why I've never had a relationship with a server.
I know why *I* didn't. Because if they got that familiar, I'd get all irrationally paranoid and not go back. At least I think so. I've adjusted to the discomfort of the 7-11 guys knowing me by name and car.
I need to remember that if I take a decongestant at night for mild discomfort, I need to take it earlier. All muzzy headed this morning.
I like when convenience store guys know what I smoke, because then we don't have to talk AT ALL!
But they do talk! And ask me shit! And they are all nice and friendly and give me free lighters and sometimes don't charge me for my ginger ale! They aren't at all creepy, I'm just a freak.
Seriously, I'm way more of a freak than you, because I really don't ever go there. I'm very pleasant and smiley, but almost never say more than hi and thanks.
I think some of it is regional. I can't speak to NYC (except its stereotype) but Baltimore is very southern on the whole aggressive friendly spectrum. Whereas the country I was raised in is on the near silent friendly end of the scale.
America's Drunkest Cities
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Kansas City was tied with Cincinnati for 16th place.
She's doing.... okay.
Best wishes to you and her. I hope progess continues.
And spring-break party spot Miami placed all the way down at No. 33 of 35.
We just aren't trying hard enough. No Florida cities in the top 20. Who knew we were so sober?
Baltimore is very southern on the whole aggressive friendly spectrum.
Oh yeah -- I kind of forgot about that whole thing. Kind of made me nuts.
The server thing is not my fault. It's Bob who wants everyone to like him.