'A Hole in the World'
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I don't know if my mother has an actual wedding band or not. I know growing up that what I thought was her wedding ring is what I found out to be described as an engagement ring. I do know my cousin is the first male on either side of the family to wear a wedding ring.
The males on both sides of my family (myself included) don't wear jewelry at all, so seeing my cousin with the wedding band always seems odd to me.
As far as men and wedding rings, I think its fairly recent -- at least it being "standard" is. I remember wedding announcements specifying "it was a double ring ceremony" into the eighties at least.
I recently saw one of the late-night B&W reruns of "What's My Line" (the insomniac's refuge at 2:30 am is Game Show Network) where the person whose profession they were guessing was "wedding ring maker," and when one of the male panelists asked the contestant if he would use the product, his response led me to believe that men wearing wedding rings was just starting to become more widespread at that time (the late '50s).
My parents got married in 1959 and my dad has always worn a wedding band. His father, however, I don't think did. I always chalked that up to the fact that he was a farmer and jewelry + machinery is often a bad combination.
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My parents married in 1961, and both had rings (and my mother had an engagemetn ring as well, but the stone fell out one Christmas day, and we never found it, despite picking through the trash, etc.). My father was a carpenter, so he didn't wear his ring all the time, but he wore it fairly often, especially if they were going somewhere.
My parents married in '58, and Dad has a wedding ring that I've never seen him wear (on account metal and his skin failing to play nicely, plus him being a large old man now instead of a skinny young one).
What's the confusion? You give $30K+ plus worth of diamond to your girl. Later, she tags your finger with a G, you tag hers with another G, and you get to buy everthing.
Seems plain to me.
My dad has his grandfather's wedding ring. If it's his maternal grandfather, it's from 1920ish sweden, since they only got around to getting married because they were immigrating. It is unlikely that it's from the other side, since they were hardscrabble dirt (tundra?) farmers with very little sentimentality. That much gold totally would have been hocked for a cow or plow.