Advice needed.

I've decided to cancel phone and DSL at the old apartment as of today. There will be a forwarding message to my new number for 90 days. Do I need to let old landlord know that I have a new number? I really don't want to...

After 90 days, what could she need to call you about? I say don't worry about it.

Well, no. I'm more worried about the next 20 days, or so. Will she be upset that I cancelled that phone line and didn't tell her?

I just worry that if I tell her, she's gonna be all, "Oh. So, you moved out? Ok. We're gonna go in and paint." And I'm being a mean bitch and don't want her in the apartment since they made us pay the full month's rent.

extra ma~~ for reasonableness , Bev.

{{Sean and S}}

yay good sonogram!

and I know where you are with the money thing P-C - I hate when large bits of money disapear when I want them . Even if it is for something I like. It sets off a panic response in me ... which really isn't nessicary, and very slowly I am overcomming it.

Will she be upset that I cancelled that phone line and didn't tell her?

It's none of her business. If she needs to reach you, she'll get the forwarding message, and she'll reach you - no big deal. I don't see any reason for you to contact her more than you need to, frankly.

Oh, good grief. I'm freecycling my boxes and packing material. Someone just e-mailed and asked for the measurements of the boxes. Yeah, 'cause I'm gonna measure all the misc boxes I have. Right. Do you want the freaking boxes or not?

What -t said, vw. If she questions you, tell her that you haven't moved out but decided to save the money and use your cell phone for the rest of the month as your primary line. And then tell her I said, "PFFFFT!"

eta: vw, measure the largest and the smallest and estimate how many you've got.

What -t said, vw. If she questions you, tell her that you haven't moved out but decided to save the money and use your cell phone for the rest of the month as your primary line. And then tell her I said, "PFFFFT!"

Sounds like a plan. Although, our lease requires that we have a landline. What's she gonna do at this point? Evict us?

vw, measure the largest and the smallest and estimate how many you've got.

Most of them are Uhaul boxes, so I just went and got their measurements from the website and estimated. But, still. Crazihead!

Free. Boxes. Take them and say thank you... Sheesh, people.

Reminds me I have to list some things on Freecyle. Or craigslist. It's stuff I can charge for, but really I just want the smallest amount of hassle.

Sean, lots of ~ma for S. I hope everything's ok.

{{Bev}} This early, I think optimism is warranted and I hope the other complications become less complicated. Focus on the small improvements. Your strength and coping ability is nothing short of amazing.

Hec, there's lots of buffista ~ma to spread around for short term/long term issues. Good thing we're all here for the long haul no matter what the outcome. By the way, JZ's got great bedrest service!

And I'm being a mean bitch and don't want her in the apartment since they made us pay the full month's rent.

You're not a mean bitch. You PAID your rent. The apartment is yours to do with as you wish. If you don't want her in, it's not about being mean.

Gloomcookie is HAWT! I love the shirt!