Ah, yes, of course. The gypsies, they gave you your soul. The gypsies are filthy people. Ptui! We shall speak of them no more.

Ilona Costa Bianchi ,'The Girl in Question'


Spike's Bitches 31: We're Motivated Go-getters.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Gris - Jul 09, 2006 7:15:02 am PDT #3471 of 10001
Hey. New board.

I was born in Lake Charles, LA, moved to Melbourne, FL before I was 1, and my hometown is Tupelo, MS, where I moved at the age of 3 (right before my sister was born.)

I have no guilt about that.


sumi - Jul 09, 2006 7:19:10 am PDT #3472 of 10001
Art Crawl!!!

I don't have a home town.


Laura - Jul 09, 2006 7:40:51 am PDT #3473 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.

Brendon doesn't have a home town because he was an Air Force child. He was born in Biloxi, but was gone by age 2. I don't think he thinks of any place as his home town. Maybe Fort Lauderdale because that was where he landed when his dad retired.

My boys were born in Boynton Beach where the hospital was located, but I list Delray Beach as there place of birth since they made it here before they were 24 hours old. (and I would have had them at home if they let me!)


sj - Jul 09, 2006 7:41:00 am PDT #3474 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

The internet is very quiet today. It makes procrastination much harder.


Laura - Jul 09, 2006 7:42:12 am PDT #3475 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.

For some reason I thought you were a Chicago girl sumi. Where is your family?


ChiKat - Jul 09, 2006 7:42:26 am PDT #3476 of 10001
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

whenever I go to any of the above, my brain thinks I'm going home.

I think that's kind of nice. I have a home, Chicago. But, I don't have a hometown. I was born in one city, lived in another city from age 3-10, another from 10-11, another from 11-18. My parents moved to another city when I was 18 and I went to college in yet another city. After college, I went to grad school in yet another city. After grad school, I lived with my parents for a year then moved to Chicago.

When I visit my parents, I don't think I'm going home. I think I'm going to visit my parents. Chicago is the only place I think of as going home. But, it's still not my hometown.


P.M. Marc - Jul 09, 2006 8:02:51 am PDT #3477 of 10001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

I was born about five miles from here.

The farthest I've lived from "home" as an adult was about 60 miles to the south.

I think this is mostly laziness and lack of drive on my part. I love Seattle, I understand Seattle, I know her to the marrow of my bones. I get cranky at newcomers who judge the city's introverted, passive-aggressive ways as somehow wrong and bad--we are a polite and suspicious people at heart here.

But I'm not in love with her.

And I know that someday, I'll probably part ways with her, because she's not exactly home.


Laura - Jul 09, 2006 8:03:12 am PDT #3478 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.

No doubt Utica NY is my hometown. My mother was born there. I was born there and lived in the same house for my first 18 years. Then I ran as fast as I could and never looked back. There is a certain comfort of familiarity there, but never in this lifetime could I imagine living there by choice.

I've loved many of the places I've lived since then. Loved Norfolk, adored Pittsburgh, had a blast in Philly. Florida feels the most like home. After 26 years here I think I can call it my hometown now.

It seems unlikely I will stay here forever. Brendon isn't that crazy about it and there are a whole lot of cool places to live. We'll see what happens. I gave up long term planning long ago. I just go with the flow.


victor infante - Jul 09, 2006 8:07:37 am PDT #3479 of 10001
To understand what happened at the diner, we shall use Mr. Papaya! This is upsetting because he's the friendliest of fruits.

I was born in Pittsburgh, PA. It's decidedly not home. I left there when I was two, and left Pennsylvania entirely in 3rd Grade.

Laguna Beach, CA, is where I consider my hometown, even if I haven't lived there since I was 18. It's where I grew up, and where I still know every inch of the place, even when it changes.

Other places I've lived, including Worcester, aren't really home, so much as places I am.


brenda m - Jul 09, 2006 8:08:02 am PDT #3480 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Hometowns, huh. Milwaukee, I guess, though the first half of my younger life was in NYC. Montreal used to be in the running, Atlanta almost was home, DC never felt like home, let alone hometown. Which was kind of unexpected, really.

Chicago has felt like home since the day I moved here, though not hometown, exactly.