Death is your art. You make it with your hands day after day. That final gasp, that look of peace. And part of you is desperate to know: What's it like? Where does it lead you? And now you see, that's the secret. Not the punch you didn't throw or the kicks you didn't land. She really wanted it. Every Slayer has a death wish. Even you.

Spike ,'Conversations with Dead People'


F2F 4: Too Much Candy, Never Enough Mojitos.  

Plan what to do, what to wear (you can never go wrong with a corset), and get ready for the next BuffistaCon: Madison, WI from June 20-22 2008! Official website.


deborah grabien - Jun 04, 2006 12:56:52 pm PDT #2425 of 10002
It really doesn't matter. It's just an opinion. Don't worry about it. Not worth the hassle.

voluptua

You've just brought back a superb memory, 33 or so years old now. I was feeling miserable and body-hating (had just had surgery on ankles and was puffy and compressed and pissed off). I was curled up in bed, not quite in tears, and Nicholas Rev.1 wandered upstairs and just stood there, staring down at me.

I finally got very twitchy and snapped something along the lines of "WHAT. ARE. YOU. DOING."

I remember exactly what he said - the entire memory just came back. He said "I'm admiring your pulchritude."

Never heard him use the word before that or anytime after it. Stuck in my head, but I'd forgotten that.

You just made me extremely happy.


Nicole - Jun 04, 2006 12:59:36 pm PDT #2426 of 10002
I'm getting the pig!

I've been thinking about how totally random the pictures I took are. Like, I have tons of some people, and of others (like Tep, for one) I can't believe I have no pictures. Which sucks.

This. So very much this. When I finally uploaded my pics I couldn't believe how much stuff and how many foamy people I failed to take pictures of. And I was apparently stalking Juliana because like half of my pics were of her. (Not that tons of pics of Juliana is a problem -'cause that would obviously be crazy talk!)

Next time I'ma have a checklist or summat.

Good plan. I may adopt it.


Steph L. - Jun 04, 2006 1:01:11 pm PDT #2427 of 10002
I look more rad than Lutheranism

the voluptua is a bit more prominent in the dance shots than I would like

But....belly dance *requires* a belly!


brenda m - Jun 04, 2006 1:04:45 pm PDT #2428 of 10002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Smonster has lovely voluptua. Me, not so much.


deborah grabien - Jun 04, 2006 1:06:32 pm PDT #2429 of 10002
It really doesn't matter. It's just an opinion. Don't worry about it. Not worth the hassle.

I have no voluptua. Pulchritude, all the way.


Kate P. - Jun 04, 2006 1:47:40 pm PDT #2430 of 10002
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

smonster's voluptua is like the textbook definition of sexy.


smonster - Jun 04, 2006 2:00:13 pm PDT #2431 of 10002
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I'm pretty zen about my voluptua, thanks to rugby and bellydance. But thanks for the compliments.

I remember exactly what he said - the entire memory just came back. He said "I'm admiring your pulchritude."

That is made of awesome.

But....belly dance *requires* a belly!

Well... I prefer to think that bellydance (like rugby, coincidentally) welcomes a greater variety of body types and heights than many other forms of dance (or sport, as the case may be).

See, for example, Rachel Brice.

I do really love Fat Chance Bellydance, as they have a lot more size and ethnic diversity in their troupe than, say, the Bellydance Superstars. (I respect and like a lot of those dancers. I'm not going to get into my feelings about Miles Copeland. Oh, yes, folks, there is wank in bellydance, too.)


Karl - Jun 04, 2006 3:06:29 pm PDT #2432 of 10002
I adore all you motherfuckers so much -- PMM.

Smonster has lovely voluptua. Me, not so much.

While not wishing to denigrate smonster's lovely voluptua in any way (loved the dancing, so pretty), I have to take issue with this statement. I came up to you on the terrace and put my arms around you for entirely selfish reasons, Brenda; you looked like you would feel fabulous to hold. And I was not wrong.


SuziQ - Jun 04, 2006 5:31:41 pm PDT #2433 of 10002
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

DH just ran over to the liquer store to get some soda and asked what I wanted. I jokingly said Fernet.

Ummm, I now have a small bottle of Fernet.


beth b - Jun 04, 2006 5:44:23 pm PDT #2434 of 10002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

he hasn't seen what happens when you drink Fernet.