See, in my fantasy, when I'm kissing you... you're kissing me. It's okay. I can wait.

Oz ,'First Date'


Natter 43: I Love My Dead Gay Whale Crosspost.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Hil R. - Apr 02, 2006 12:53:55 pm PDT #8005 of 10001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I graded papers for awhile. Still not done, but I think they're just not going to get done by tomorrow.

I'm trying to decide what to have for dinner. My plan was to make this tofu and watercress dish that's really good and fairly simple, but it also takes a long while (marinating and rice-cooking.) Maybe I'll save that for tomorrow, and have a salad and a sandwich or something tonight.


Nora Deirdre - Apr 02, 2006 12:56:34 pm PDT #8006 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Tom is test driving a hot cross bun recipe to see if it would work to bring for Easter dinner, and also toasting up/grinding spices for the carribean spiced brick-grilled butterflied chicken. It smells so good... I want to be finished with my work!

Only a couple sentences to go, to finish the 2nd page...


Nora Deirdre - Apr 02, 2006 12:59:53 pm PDT #8007 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

OK, it was one more sentence and now I am knocking off for the night!!

(of course, I still have a shitload of work to do on this paper, but I have another week)


msbelle - Apr 02, 2006 1:00:48 pm PDT #8008 of 10001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Theo - I did make out in time. And I have had a lovely day.

Franken, Franken, Franken, sigh I am choosing to pity your wrongheadedness instead of taking stronger action. While The McWaringles are very nice and funny, and a pleasure to spend time with, let's not be silly over-exaggerate those qualities.

There now, don't we all feel better?

Oh, and look, I have a lovely post #, because TPTB agree with me.


Jesse - Apr 02, 2006 1:11:58 pm PDT #8009 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

aurelia, for me it's more about when the teacher has information you don't have, and which could be useful. In Emily's case, it sounded like, "What do you, as a more experienced teacher, think I could have done better?" In mine, we were working on an interview protocol, and kept asking the prof if he thought what were doing would work in the field, and he literally wouldn't tell us. And it turned out the answer was no, it wouldn't really work. I feel like it would have been OK, pedagogically, for us to have known that ahead of time, since I'm sure it was glaringly obvious to the prof.


Jesse - Apr 02, 2006 1:13:00 pm PDT #8010 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Oh, and Consuela, can't you refuse to be pushed up the ladder? You'd think people would be happy to keep people in jobs they are good at. Stupid Peter Principle.


Emily - Apr 02, 2006 1:19:08 pm PDT #8011 of 10001
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

Most of the time the students really can come up with an appropriate answer, they just don't realize that they can.

What Jesse said. Also, honestly, although I know it's considered good pedagogy and I actually do it myself, I hate hate hate it. Possibly because I will remember it if you just tell me, whereas if you ask me what I mostly learn is the stress of trying to figure out what you want me to say. I know that that makes me the exception and not the rule, and I am actually aiming to teach all of my students and not those just like me, so I totally try to persuade them to come up with answers.

Also, when I ask my kids to try to come up with the answers, the worst that can happen is it turns out they don't really understand, in which case we keep working on it. The worst that can happen with me is that he finds out I have no idea what I'm doing and should never be allowed to be a teacher oh my god what are you even doing here? Or, well, so say the voices inside my head.


aurelia - Apr 02, 2006 1:43:53 pm PDT #8012 of 10001
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

he literally wouldn't tell us

I don't do that. And I've never officially taught grad students. And my field is half practical math/science/engineering and half art, so some questions will have right/wrong answers and some will be completely subjective.

IOW, I am totally backing out of this conversation.


aurelia - Apr 02, 2006 2:23:28 pm PDT #8013 of 10001
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

oops, didn't mean to stop the conversation. I just figured my oranges (or more like crabapples) didn't belong with your apples.


Jesse - Apr 02, 2006 2:43:38 pm PDT #8014 of 10001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

No stoppage! I was, um, pretending to work.

Does anyone know if Top Model reruns? Because I am filled with angst about the new time slot of Amazing Race. Yeah, that's right -- instead of writing my thesis, I've been pondering my tv taping schedule for the week.