Slay-er? Chosen One. She who hangs out a lot in cemeteries? You're kidding. Ask around. Look it up: Slayer comma The.

Buffy ,'Showtime'


Literary Buffistas 3: Don't Parse the Blurb, Dear.

There's more to life than watching Buffy the Vampire Slayer! No. Really, there is! Honestly! Here's a place for Buffistas to come and discuss what it is they're reading, their favorite authors and poets. "Geez. Crack a book sometime."


EpicTangent - Aug 12, 2021 12:53:00 pm PDT #26916 of 28078
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

I just don't enjoy writing that much, and trying to write a review makes me feel inarticulate. So I have to really love or REALLY REALLY hate something to take the trouble. I think I've written maybe 2 positive and one negative (it was SOOOO bad) review. Though I do appreciate that friends like Pix & hippocampus do take the trouble.


megan walker - Aug 12, 2021 2:20:05 pm PDT #26917 of 28078
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

That's troubling that people are weaponizing reviews like that.

That is horrible. But from knowing GR and their policies fairly well, I can't see much they can or will do about it, besides perhaps trying to fight bots. They are firm believers in not being prescriptive about how people use stars (and apparently people have used them in all sorts of ways beyond rating books and have done so for a long time). And, of course, most books are actually overrated per what GR says the stars stand for (i.e., 2 stars = it was okay). I think I may be the only one who actually follows their star guidelines.

I tend to only read the reviews from my friends on Goodreads, unless there are none from my friends. Mostly I use it to keep track of what I have read.

For me too, GR is most important as a way to log what I have read & want to read. When I was more active as a librarian and for my themed book salon, I used listopia a lot.

The brief snippet I write after reading is more of a reminder to myself than anything, but I also try to write something since I personally tend to disregard any individual assessment that is only a star rating. I know far too many people who leave 4 or 5 stars for everything they read, which is then fairly useless to me in terms of figuring out whether I would like it. I'm always happy when a friend has read something I'm considering (more rare than I'd like) and left an actual review and I definitely read those. Otherwise, I pretty much only read 1 or 2 star reviews since I find them the most helpful in figuring out whether I want to read something. But I usually go there only when I have something in mind for some other reason, not to actually find random things I might want to read.

For that reason, I tend to go in waves in terms of logging my reading there (I log all my reading in a separate spreadsheet regardless) and this conversation is making me realizing I haven't been doing so for much of this year. I need to remedy that.


EpicTangent - Aug 12, 2021 3:31:31 pm PDT #26918 of 28078
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

And, of course, most books are actually overrated per what GR says the stars stand for (i.e., 2 stars = it was okay). I think I may be the only one who actually follows their star guidelines.

Not the only one, but I do sometimes feel like a judgmental jerk because I give so many 3 star (i.e., I "liked it", not "really liked" or "loved" it). But I am a big fan of accuracy.


-t - Aug 12, 2021 3:43:37 pm PDT #26919 of 28078
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I don’t even leave stars. Rating stuff stresses me out


megan walker - Aug 12, 2021 4:15:37 pm PDT #26920 of 28078
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

Not the only one, but I do sometimes feel like a judgmental jerk because I give so many 3 star (i.e., I "liked it", not "really liked" or "loved" it). But I am a big fan of accuracy.

It's a weird point of pride for me that my star average hovers just above 3. I mean, 5 stars = "it was amazing" and I just don't think very many books (or movies) warrant that. Sorry (not sorry). Goodreads mission is to help readers find books they will like so, if I am going to rate things, I prefer to be honest.

I don’t even leave stars. Rating stuff stresses me out

I can totally see that. At least you are not skewing it in either direction!


bennett - Aug 12, 2021 4:17:00 pm PDT #26921 of 28078

I mostly give 3 stars as well - I've got to really love something to go to 4 or 5. And I mostly don't give 1s or 2s unless something was really bad. I do have a category for "Did not finish" and I like to write notes about why. Mostly when the book was so stereotypical or just very boring.


Kate P. - Aug 12, 2021 4:24:46 pm PDT #26922 of 28078
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

I don't rate most books except ones I really love, which get five stars. For a while I was rating the four-star ones, but stopped for no particular reason. I do use Goodreads quite a lot to log my reading, with a lot of useful-to-me tags that I sometimes use for recommending or purchasing books for my library, as well as my extensive TBR list.


-t - Aug 12, 2021 5:20:17 pm PDT #26923 of 28078
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

My TBR list is just sample chapters I’ve downloaded to my reader with no notes or anything so I spend a fair amount of time wondering why I snagged that one and if I really meant to (and generally yes, I did, but it was a couple of years ago after a random conversation or reading an intriguing review in a magazine)

And it’s the week that Ellery Queen and Asimov’s both come out so I will probably add some more to puzzle future me


-t - Aug 12, 2021 5:21:55 pm PDT #26924 of 28078
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I mean, I know it’s proverbially wrong but I do actually do a lot of judging whether or not I want to read a given book right now by it’s cover.


meara - Aug 12, 2021 9:36:43 pm PDT #26925 of 28078

It annoys me when anything less than 5/5 is awful. Like, I really want a 3 to be “it was fine” (not just in rating books but anything—like if you do a survey after talking to a customer service rep and if you don’t give five stars there must be something wrong and they’ll get dinged. But then there’s no real way to be like “this person was amazing” vs “they were fine and that’s all I usually need or expect from calling to ask what their mailing address is” or whatever.

(/damn kids off my lawn)