We can come by between classes. Usually I use that time to copy over my class notes with a system of different colored pens. But it's been pointed out to me that that's, you know...insane.

Willow ,'Showtime'


Literary Buffistas 3: Don't Parse the Blurb, Dear.

There's more to life than watching Buffy the Vampire Slayer! No. Really, there is! Honestly! Here's a place for Buffistas to come and discuss what it is they're reading, their favorite authors and poets. "Geez. Crack a book sometime."


Toddson - Apr 16, 2021 8:44:51 am PDT #26626 of 27942
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

My grandmother had a difficult birth with my mother in 1925 and, in the past, it's quite possible that they both would have died. I'd possibly have died of measles at three ... came close, but a nurse friend of my mother's helped save me. They were worried I'd be either blind or deaf (extremely nearsighted doesn't count, does it?).


amyparker - Apr 16, 2021 10:15:23 am PDT #26627 of 27942
In the end it's only ever been one step, and then the next.

I think about how both my mother and I would probably have died at my birth and don't romanticize much before the 20th century.

Epic, same. I have to take long breaks from working on genealogy; the context for a lot of family history is invaluable, but sweet shambling Cthulhu I am grateful to live in the future.

I would read a book's worth of conversations between Professora Vorthys, Lady Alys and Cordelia.


Laura - Apr 16, 2021 10:59:03 am PDT #26628 of 27942
Our wings are not tired.

As a fan of wandering older cemeteries it is disheartening to see how many stones are young women and infants. Yeah, give me modern day science. My mother was born in 1921 at a 12 pound birth weight (at home, no drugs) with a diabetic mother. Her mom died at 28.


DavidS - Apr 16, 2021 11:08:55 am PDT #26629 of 27942
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

My maternal grandmother died in childbirth (conjoined stillborn twins - which would have been #9 and #10).

My paternal great-grandmother got kicked in the head by a mule and lived in a sanitarium for the rest of her life because they didn't know how to rehab a traumatic head injury.

My entire family line going back to the first Johan Smay in 1727 begins with him fathering 9 children with his first wife, who died in childbirth, then 8 more with his second wife.

My Aunt Geneva almost died during the Depression because she had tonsillitis and a quack doctor ripped them out with a pair of pliers.


Toddson - Apr 16, 2021 11:14:27 am PDT #26630 of 27942
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

My mother couldn't believe I'd really had my appendix removed, since I was only in the hospital ~36 hours; when she'd had hers removed in 1937 or so, she was in the hospital for two weeks.


Calli - Apr 16, 2021 1:09:14 pm PDT #26631 of 27942
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

My maternal line is an illustration of improved surgical techniques. Grandma, Mom, and my sister all had their gall bladders removed. My grandmother had a foot-long incision and bedrest for a week. Mom had a four inch incision and was up and about in a few days. My sister had it done laparoscopically and was feeling nearly up to snuff in a day.

I think some of the improvements in recovery time is also related to the time before people are willing to have surgery. Grandma had hers out in the middle of the Great Depression, when money was super tight. I'm sure there was a period of "let's see if this will get better on its own" for her that my sister did not have.


Laura - Apr 16, 2021 1:58:31 pm PDT #26632 of 27942
Our wings are not tired.

My mother couldn't believe I'd really had my appendix removed, since I was only in the hospital ~36 hours

That's particularly amusing to me (now) because when I had my appendix out a few years ago Brendon went around the system and got me out in less than 24 hours because "I didn't want to be in the hospital and wanted to go home". When he came in all happy to get me dressed and out of there I was nothing short of horrified at the thought of actually moving enough to get out of bed and dressed. Like, walk 20 feet from car to house, you got to be joking. But I managed.


juliana - Apr 16, 2021 2:27:39 pm PDT #26633 of 27942
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

I think about how both my mother and I would probably have died at my birth and don't romanticize much before the 20th century.

Me, too.

edit: And if I had survived, Peanut's childbirth would have killed both of us without intervention.


Atropa - Apr 18, 2021 12:52:06 pm PDT #26634 of 27942
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

I like the aesthetics of past eras, but that's it. Modern medicine and plumbing are great.


-t - Apr 18, 2021 1:33:45 pm PDT #26635 of 27942
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

So, I’ve had my subscription to Asimov’s for a long time now, and my satisfaction with it has been pretty uneven lately. Sometimes I’ll read a whole issue and not be happy with any of it and think about canceling, but it hasn’t happened enough times in a row for me to do it, at least not without something in the Coming Soon that I want to stick around for.

The May issue has a baseball story I really like, so I feel like I should say so, if only so I’ll remember later. Tin Man by Rick Wilber and Brad Aiken. It doesn’t have a mind-blowing premise that everyone must read right now, or anything, but it’s a good story. The SF-nal aspects are plausible and tidy and the baseball aspects fit nicely into that slot in my brain (which is not a very knowledgeable slot, ymmv of course)