You know, thinking back, the one time I lived with someone I was involved with, we did talk quite a bit. And the same with roommates. Maybe when you live with someone, you get used to sharing your thoughts that much more.
Fred: So you don't worry that it's possible for someone to send out a biological or electronic trigger that effectively overrides your own sense of ideals and values and replaces them with an alternative coercive agenda that reduces you to a mindless meat puppet? Shopkeeper: Wow. People used to think that I was paranoid.
'Time Bomb'
Spike's Bitches 29: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Nicole - Apr 10, 2006 11:07:49 am PDT #8495 of 10001
I'm getting the pig!
vw bug - Apr 10, 2006 11:08:43 am PDT #8496 of 10001
Mostly lurking...
Gud, I hope you check in soon and let us remind you what a wonderful person you are.
I have always been under the impression that the more you talk to a person, the more you have to tell them...just 'cause you start getting into more of the nitty gritty details of your life. Or, at least that's what I've been telling myself lately.
beth b - Apr 10, 2006 11:09:21 am PDT #8497 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
calls, emails, all the time. I couldn't tel you how often, because it isn't something I think about- we just do it. usally it is about something. however, sometimes the something is the cat and something cute the cat did. It isn't something we chose to do - it just evovled that way. At some of Matt's jobs - I never knew when he would be home - so calling or emailing made a lot of sense ( plus if he called as he was leaving - I wouldn't worry about the when he was going to be there ) Now, I usally do some dinner prep - he finishes dinner when he gets the call I am comming home. There are times when it gets annoying - because I get interrupted or matt picks up the phone when he is in a meeting (going back to the early conversation), but it just works that way. I know lots of couples that talk less. And I know couples that have been running a business together for 20+ years.
juliana - Apr 10, 2006 11:15:35 am PDT #8498 of 10001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…
Well, yeah, constant communication is because I like him. I see stuff I think he would think is interesting and I pass it on.
Yup. I was like that, too. Emails, mostly, but I still talked to him on the phone at least once a day at work.
beth b - Apr 10, 2006 11:17:22 am PDT #8499 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
We ping each other a lot
that's the description. and I agree with vw - the more I spend time with someone , the more I have to say. Lots of people think I am quite. Dh knows better - i just think a lot before I say anything, except with him and my immediate family.
Toddson - Apr 10, 2006 11:17:32 am PDT #8500 of 10001
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"
Although a classic Buffista communication? In New Orleans Joe posted to the Board from the room while Aimee was down in the courtyard.
Gudanov - Apr 10, 2006 11:17:42 am PDT #8501 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping
I'm back and feeling so down I'm having a hard time getting started on being productive.
Aims - Apr 10, 2006 11:18:12 am PDT #8502 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.
What's up Gud? {{{{}}}}
Nicole - Apr 10, 2006 11:18:42 am PDT #8503 of 10001
I'm getting the pig!
Poor Gud. {{{you}}}
vw bug - Apr 10, 2006 11:18:50 am PDT #8504 of 10001
Mostly lurking...
Well, take a little break for a bit, Gud, and let it all settle, k?