I watched the first Top Chef, but then got distracted. I haven't watched anything but Bones and Criminal Minds for a couple of weeks.

I'd say meet for coffee

Well, coffee, coke, french fries.. donuts... um... I think I'm a little hormonal tonight. I'm sure we'll make it one way or the other. At least after we move I'll be able to get the car more often.

I'm going to head for bed now. Love you guys. Night!

Need cat health~ma for Harvey. He's going to the litter box frequently, and having pee-clumps the size of a pea.

If he were completely blocked, I'd find a 24-hr veterinary clinic for him, but I believe we are safe to wait till morning.

I hate this.

{{{Harvey}}}

Hec, I'm appalled that so-called Nice Boss would do the "I'm looking you straight in the eye" thing and just tell a bold-faced lie.

I watched Top Chef! I'm not surprised that Candice (sp?) is gone and I'm REALLY happy that Stephen was in the bottom three.

Next week on Bones: " Pirates !"

sumi I was sad to see Candace go; I wanted Stephen to go before her so she could gloat a little bit. Also, I just want Stephen to go. I can't stand him. His cocky, I am too good for this and I don't follow the assignments, attitude needs to go.

Ack! ((Harvey))

So, The Boy and I finally had The Talk tonight. You know, the what-the-hell-are-we-doing-and-do-we-try-to-define-it-and-will-this-all-end-in-tears talk.

The long and the short of it is that we're on the same page, emphatically not!dating, just being friends who flux. It just took us a VERY long conversation to realize that we're on the same page.

Him: "I worry, because....I don't obsess about you." [He has ADD and a lot of OCD tendencies, and his M.O. in past relationships has been to obsess about the lass in question.]
Me: "I call that *healthy,* actually. I'd be creeped out if you *were* obsessed with me."

Him: "I'm attracted to you....but it's not always lightning flashes and overwhelming lust."
Me: "Oh, honey. We're not *14* years old. It's not always overwhelming lust for me, either."

Him: "Our friendship is SO important to me. I don't want to fuck it up."
Me: "....Me, too. Like, me too, times 1 million."

Me: "So....*what* are we doing?"
Him: "Same thing as we have been -- making it up as we go along."

It's cool, it's good. I think.

Tres groovy, Teppy.

Carrotlicious.

Apparently he stopped by our mailbox on his adventure.

Oh, Gud, that's marvellous. You have a handful and a half, there.

Deena, congratulations!

Aww. I feel your conversational pain, Teppy. I hate those conversations, and have had too many of them in the past six or nine months. And yet, they've mostly turned out good, once we were both figuring out what the hell we were trying to say (or realized we weren't sure WHAT we wanted to say). So, yay for being on the same page!

I went out tonight with a friend from LJ who I had never met! She's awesome, and I was so glad to meet her! And we went to a dyke bar in San Francisco, my very first lesbian San Francisco experience! Yay. Of course, they were all too cool for life hipsters with freaky hair and piercings and crazy clothing (WHY were several of them wearing bandanas around their necks? It was very "I'm going to rob a train" or "I'm taking part in an IMF protest"...)