Thanks, guys.
Spike's Bitches 29: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Hee hee hee! Erin said BF!
Life is hard - learning to manage your own is what makes one a grown-up. I used to feel that I had to have a husband, a house, a CAREER, and maybe even kids to be a real adult, but I don't think so anymore. Now, I feel very much the same as Erin. I'm 42 years old. I pay my own bills, usually on time, I do my job reasonably well, I don't eat candy all the time, and I don't mess up other people's property. That's grown-up enough.
BEST FRIEND, fool.
I'm am still leery of the boyfriend word. My friend tried to use it on my this weekend, and I shied like a spooked horse. 5 dates do not a a BoyF make.
(DO they? Oh, god, I feel sick...)
No! Absolutely not! Neverever and in no way.
t fans erin gently
VW, you are so totally NOT a failure. Fitting the Expected Template for Adulthood doesn't make one suddenly more mature or successful than the rest of the world, and not fitting it doesn't mean you're somehow less worthwhile or mature.
Hell, I'd even say that the Expected Template types are often the least successful -- IME only, and no offense to Templatey types here, of course.
Thanks, Trud. The room started to spin, and my vision greyed....
I am 33 years old and have never had a boyfriend. I think I may be too old to start. It's so...weird to contemplate.
I pay my own bills, usually on time, I do my job reasonably well, I don't eat candy all the time, and I don't mess up other people's property. That's grown-up enough.
I heartily endorse Zenkitty for defining "grown-up."
(whew) According to Zenkitty, I sorta qualify for adulthood. The part about being unemployed is sticking in my craw at the moment, but hey. I never got downsized for not performing my appointed duties.