Sometimes when I'm sitting in class... You know, I'm not thinking about class, 'cause that would never happen. I think about kissing you. And it's like everything stops. It's like, it's like freeze frame. Willow kissage.

Oz ,'First Date'


Spike's Bitches 28: For the Safety of Puppies...and Christmas!  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Cass - Feb 15, 2006 8:35:56 am PST #9366 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

How does one tactfully explain a romance hangover?
The grin usually gives it away.

Last night I got to listen to some people having sex in the next hotel room. Much of the squeaking, not so much other sounds of actual enjoyment. I was tempted to sketch out a few hints, tips and a diagram or two and slip the paper under their door in between sessions. As a public service, you know.

Teppy, how frustrating that the doctors haven't found anything. Your father is very lucky to have you near to talk to/listen to those over-educated white coats.
What Sparky said.
I don't know. I hate turning down perfectly good inteviews, but asking someone, for their first interview, to commit to an entire day of interviewing? (I think it's more appropriate for a second interview, if at all)
On a second interview, I could see this but on a first? I have had first interviews where I knew ten minutes in that me and the job were unmixy. Committing to a full day of that possibility? Huh. Does it seem like something you would fit into well and that would make you happy?


Sparky1 - Feb 15, 2006 8:37:57 am PST #9367 of 10001
Librarian Warlord

Nora, it sounds like a whole day means they are seriously considering you for the job instead of just screening you -- which is good. Granted, a whole day is the norm for the library positions for which I apply.


Nora Deirdre - Feb 15, 2006 8:39:38 am PST #9368 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

have had first interviews where I knew ten minutes in that me and the job were unmixy. Committing to a full day of that possibility? Huh. Does it seem like something you would fit into well and that would make you happy?

I think I'd need to go there and talk to people to figure this out. Knowing the particular department, it really could go either way. I'd have been psyched to go in and talk for an hour or so so we could each get a feel for each other, before going any further.


Nora Deirdre - Feb 15, 2006 8:41:45 am PST #9369 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Nora, it sounds like a whole day means they are seriously considering you for the job instead of just screening you -- which is good.

Hmm.


beth b - Feb 15, 2006 8:48:15 am PST #9370 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

my sister is in the biotech field - Interview process is usually the entire day - and so is the second interview...


Cass - Feb 15, 2006 8:48:35 am PST #9371 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

askye, ~ma heading your way.

I think I'd need to go there and talk to people to figure this out. Knowing the particular department, it really could go either way. I'd have been psyched to go in and talk for an hour or so so we could each get a feel for each other, before going any further.
Is there anyway you can ask for a thirty minute getting to know each other before the all-day? Even if you are scheduling them at the same time. Um, actually scheduling, not scheduling them to occur on the same day.

I think I have lost the cognative today.


Sparky1 - Feb 15, 2006 8:51:00 am PST #9372 of 10001
Librarian Warlord

askye, all sorts of job ~ma for you. I hope they realize they should do everything in their power to keep you happy there.


beth b - Feb 15, 2006 8:55:32 am PST #9373 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

askye - jobma~~~ I guess the fact that you arerunning into more difficult stuf means they are trusting you to do more stuff. yay?


-t - Feb 15, 2006 9:16:59 am PST #9374 of 10001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Get through it ~ma, askye.

Tough call, Nora. I've never had an all day interview, so I am completely without advice or insight.

On a completely frivolous note, I was watching GG last night and in the scene with Lorelai and Rory cooking and drinking wine, they were totally drinking out of mhy crystal!

I was thrilled. It's like my stemware is famous.


sj - Feb 15, 2006 9:19:13 am PST #9375 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I am back from the ER for today. More IV antibiotics and IV fluids. I spiked a temp in the middle of the night last night again, so they want me to come back again tomorrow. They don't think it is my kidney's anymore though, so that is the good news. I feel a little better today. Nicole is the bestest for keeping me distracted with funny stories yesterday when I felt like crying, and Dave is great for coming over and sitting with me last night despite the fact that t whitefonted for the squeamish I had to get up every 20 to vomit. Also, my mother is wonderful for taking another day out of work today to drive me to the ER because I didn't feel well enough to drive myself.