Addendum to previous post: I am way more freaked out about a past stalker knocking on my door than I want to let on.
No shit, Cass. I totally would be. Not sure what to suggest, though.
Xander: I still don't get why we came here to get info about a killer snot monster. Giles: Because it's a killer snot monster from outer space. I did not say that.
'Never Leave Me'
Spike's Bitches 28: For the Safety of Puppies...and Christmas!
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
brenda m - Feb 13, 2006 12:09:07 pm PST #9064 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
Laura - Feb 13, 2006 12:09:21 pm PST #9065 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.
Good grief erika. We love your snark here! If I ever say anything even close to stupid feel free to snark away.
Maria!
Eeeek Cass!
Nicole - Feb 13, 2006 12:15:08 pm PST #9066 of 10001
I'm getting the pig!
Cass, sweetie, after saying you have an old stalker re-visiting you, it's important for you to post once every ten minutes or so, just to keep my nerves calm. M'kay?
Obviously not being (totally) serious but... well... {{{you}}} Be safe, please.
esse - Feb 13, 2006 12:15:56 pm PST #9067 of 10001
S to the A -- using they/them pronouns!
Whew. Lots going on in here today. Congrats, Daniel.
Life looks way better after a three hour nap.
My "parents" split up when I was 4. The reason it is in air quotes is because I think parent implies much more than genetic material, and my biological father never did much more than that. But my mother re-married when I was six to the man who is my father, and they've had an amazing, strong relationship that has provided so much love and stability as well as an example for me. Leaving my bio-father was the best thing my mom could have done. This is a large part of the reason I am dropping my last name and taking the names of my mother and my (step)dad.
Cass - Feb 13, 2006 12:19:31 pm PST #9068 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
Heh.
I have just found a place to stay for tonight (3.0 and the exBF, pays to end relationships on a good note) and another for tomorrow night. Both with people who are very very good to me and would easily maim for me if the need arose.
Has she done anything that merits a call to the police?Yeah, but nothing that could ever get me a restraining order, despite my efforts at the time.
So I am cleaning up and locking the place up. I suspect she will just go away again.
erikaj - Feb 13, 2006 12:22:58 pm PST #9069 of 10001
Always Anti-fascist!
No...Munch shot an *enemy* once.
Cass - Feb 13, 2006 12:24:05 pm PST #9070 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
My doors are locked and I am going to soak in a bath for a few. I will post before I leave and once I am safely at the ex's place. I am lucky to be so cared for.
Maria - Feb 13, 2006 12:24:48 pm PST #9071 of 10001
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift
Laura!
Yeah, but nothing that could ever get me a restraining order, despite my efforts at the time.
Just keep the number handy. If you can show a pattern, you may have a chance at a TRO. It certainly sounds to me that you're in legitimate fear of bodily harm.
Cass - Feb 13, 2006 12:35:32 pm PST #9072 of 10001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
Just keep the number handy. If you can show a pattern, you may have a chance at a TRO. It certainly sounds to me that you're in legitimate fear of bodily harm.I am but it is also completely psychological at this point. Honestly I hadn't had a new whiff of her around in the past three years before today.
At the time, yes, I was afraid she was the one breaking into my windows. Given that she dissappeared for a while at the same time the break-ins did? Seemed obvious. I will call my landlord and mention the incident in case anything else happens and we need a record for the police.
I don't think she will hurt me, she just is a little too attached to me.
It is frightening but for far more than psych reasons.
P.M. Marc - Feb 13, 2006 12:40:51 pm PST #9073 of 10001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear
Poor Cass.
Scary woman bad.