I'm fairly certain I said no interruptions.

Buffy ,'Potential'


Spike's Bitches 28: For the Safety of Puppies...and Christmas!  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Stephanie - Feb 10, 2006 2:29:24 am PST #8480 of 10001
Trust my rage

There was a night shift last night! 206 posts since I went to bed.

I know! I thought something had happened. It was nice to see people just talking.

Joe and I have been putting together coffee-related gift baskets this morning. It's sort of fun to make all the stuff look pretty with ribbons and card stock and so on.


vw bug - Feb 10, 2006 2:51:52 am PST #8481 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

I am writing the cover letter for my scholarship application. How do I say I am the best candidate for the scholarship? I'm no good at selling myself.


Stephanie - Feb 10, 2006 2:59:41 am PST #8482 of 10001
Trust my rage

I'd try to think of 2-3 things that make you unique and then use them. I usually put in a sentence about "I am uniquely qualified/deserving/whatever for this scholarship." And then list the reasons.

Are there any requirements/qualifications for the scholarship? Another tactic is to find the requirements, find a quality/experience of yours that fits and then write that. "The scholarship is designed for students who are X. I have tons of X, as you can see from Y and Z."

eta: be careful taking advice from someone who doesn't know the difference between right and write.


vw bug - Feb 10, 2006 3:08:32 am PST #8483 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Thank you Stephanie! That sounds great. I think I've got something.


esse - Feb 10, 2006 3:43:49 am PST #8484 of 10001
S to the A -- using they/them pronouns!

It is a small, small lesbian world. And we keep trying to make it smaller.

So true. I can't even begin to indicate how small it is in Berea.

How do you unintentionally plagiarise? Was there supposed to be an attribution that got neglected or something?

Ask the girl that copied my proposal last fall.

Hey Pete! Good luck on the images! I wanted to tell you: I'm applying to graduate school in Wales. Am I crazy?

I've never taken a MENSA test, I don't think I'll start because it'd just be a good way to map my declining faculties from now to whenever. That's me, light-hearted.

I will honestly be happy if I do okay on my GRE. Which is on February 23. Gak.

Puyallup, Sequim, and Tsawwassen

You get lots of these in Tennessee, too.

Aimee, I love your haircut. It's so attractive.

I'd try to think of 2-3 things that make you unique and then use them.

Ooh, Stephanie, that's good. I marked your post for future (rejected) letter-writing. :)


brenda m - Feb 10, 2006 3:48:41 am PST #8485 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Am ded of all the cute. Aimee! Puppy! Em!

Boo for returning fevers, buy yay for snagging the best friend.


Nora Deirdre - Feb 10, 2006 3:58:01 am PST #8486 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

I got into a bad self-punishment loop when I tried to silence the voices altogether; every time they yipped at me, I felt worse for not being strong enough to muffle them, which just proved how right they were after all about me, which just made them crow with triumph, which made me feel even worse and more self-defeated, which made them louder, etc. ad infinitem.

from the self-loathing discussion last night, this pinged me quite a lot. I'm in an OK place right now, but I cycle fairly regularly. When I'm on the low end of the spectrum, I just feel like there's no way I can pull myself out, and I keep running the reasons that I just FUCKING HATE MYSELF so much over and over, and then I alternate that with beating myself down for being so fucking weak about it, and fury about thinking I have problems in this first world existence I live in.

Today, though, I'm OK. Which is good.

Teppy, I hope today you're OK, or better, or at least not worse.


Gudanov - Feb 10, 2006 4:51:45 am PST #8487 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping

Poor Emmett, I hope he gets better soon.


Steph L. - Feb 10, 2006 5:13:15 am PST #8488 of 10001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Teppy, I hope today you're OK, or better, or at least not worse.

I can say that I'm not worse (where values of "worse" would equal "slicing parts of my enormous reservoir of fat off my body"). But still full of the tasty zesty self-hate. Whee.

And I have no cute new pit bull puppy, so I might as well just go crawl into a cave, puppy-less. The injustice of it all!


Nicole - Feb 10, 2006 5:21:16 am PST #8489 of 10001
I'm getting the pig!

It snowed! It snowed! I *knew* Beverly would share with me. Although, I didn't ask for the bitter cold so she can have that back. Snow and mid 40s = good. Snow and a high only in the 20s = Brrrrr!

My office-mate is currently in the process of making one of our office walls into an Olympics scoreboard. Whee?