Wesley: All right. I'm going to let you all in on something you may have trouble comprehending. I assure you however-- Gunn: Vampires are real. Wesley: I was telling!

'The Cautionary Tale of Numero Cinco'


Spike's Bitches 28: For the Safety of Puppies...and Christmas!  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


vw bug - Feb 08, 2006 3:16:15 am PST #8044 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

I really just feel like going back to bed. Someone convince me to get my ass off the couch, take a shower and get off to classes.


brenda m - Feb 08, 2006 3:18:15 am PST #8045 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I have heard of people substituting apple sauce for fat in baked goods. I don't know if that appeals to you at all.

For muffins that should work pretty well - they tend to come out a bit denser and chewier than baked goods make with fats.


esse - Feb 08, 2006 3:23:49 am PST #8046 of 10001
S to the A -- using they/them pronouns!

Apparently, there were electric sheep in Brokeback Mountain.

Hi Fay! Dust storm: bad. Losing computer: bad. Your presence: very good.

This morning has no coffee, a hundred pages of reading do to, and bitchy people using my dishes after they've been washed. I'd like a repeat please.


Hil R. - Feb 08, 2006 3:24:39 am PST #8047 of 10001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Yeah, I've made muffins with the oil replaced with applesauce. Worked pretty well, except you have to make sure to really oil the pan. I remember also trying replacing the oil with prune puree in some sort of baked good. (When I was about 13, my mother was on the Ornish diet for awhile -- pretty much no fats at all -- and we kept experimenting with various ways to make recipes fat-free. The applesauce muffins are the only baked goods that I remember actually liking. I think the prune purree was in some sort of gingerbready thing, and that turned out alright, but not great.)


brenda m - Feb 08, 2006 3:26:31 am PST #8048 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I remember actually liking. I think the prune purree was in some sort of gingerbready thing, and that turned out alright, but not great.

I've done that in brownies, and it wasn't bad. But it was a long time ago, and applesauce is just so much easier.


Stephanie - Feb 08, 2006 3:40:49 am PST #8049 of 10001
Trust my rage

Ellie is happily eating Cheerios so I have a minute to post. I need to join the Kristin and Cashmere club since I feel like I never post anymore. The dogs love it when Ellie eats Cheerios. They stand under her chair and wait - she only eats about every other one so they have a good thing going.

I think the nursing is going 100% better than last time but I want to go over some pointers with a professional.

Glad to hear the nursing is going so well. While I hope this won't happen, don't feel too bad if talking to the LC gets you down. Ellie and I met with one when she was 3 days old. We were there for over an hour. The LC definitely had a lot of good stuff to say but I also left feeling like my baby was about to starve to death. I'm guessing the second time around, however, moms have more confidence in themselves.


Nora Deirdre - Feb 08, 2006 3:42:56 am PST #8050 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

although I love my mother and am glad she was able to stay and help me out, being alone with her for three days straight is driving me bugfuck crazy. This weekend should be better. DH is off work for the rest of the week and O's going to visit his other grandparents for the weekend.

I am with Cindy on the YAY for Cashmere post-birth news.

Man, I swam so hard yesterday, I was weak as a kitten. But slept like a log. It was so awesome. I had been sort of taking it easy, trying not to do too much too fast, and focusing on getting back in the habit of just going to the pool. But yesterday I just threw myself into it and it felt so great, for hours.

Between that and getting our CSA half share, I am feeling very healthy indeed!


WindSparrow - Feb 08, 2006 4:19:50 am PST #8051 of 10001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

The LC definitely had a lot of good stuff to say but I also left feeling like my baby was about to starve to death. I'm guessing the second time around, however, moms have more confidence in themselves.

I thought the whole point of a lactation consultant was to help new moms be more confident by giving them knowlege and reassurance? Are they not taking the place of the extended family/village from whence a new mother used to get knowlege and reassurance?


esse - Feb 08, 2006 4:35:05 am PST #8052 of 10001
S to the A -- using they/them pronouns!

What on earth is a lactation consultant?


WindSparrow - Feb 08, 2006 4:45:31 am PST #8053 of 10001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

What on earth is a lactation consultant?

It's someone who can offer guidance and support for mothers who are breast-feeding their babies. As it is not as easy as it looks, and we as a society no longer pass that kind of information and encouragement on via family and friends as once would have happened, a lactation consultant can be very important.