{{askye}} - so sorry you have to deal with this ,but it iwll pass

called the edd of Ca - It looks like I get copies of my records from them and from the old employer , who is my current employer as well. and do some comparisons. So while this is an annoyance - I feel less stomped on by the man.

DH is not haveing fun. one of his team quit. not surpiseing with a pay cut 3-4 yrs ago , no raises since then and no chance of raises in the near future. and the new fun rule that says that they have to be 100% billable- every week. But his boss - yelled at him. Right.

Gah, Matt's work situation sounds just evil.

You and I really must do a Strangers On A Train with each other's spouse's boss one of these days.

So sorry about Matt's job. That really sucks.

well, I keep telling him that I would have a real hard time not laughing at them. and really - it was just a matter of time before someone left. It was a slow race to see who was going the get there first.

Mean dad? Jeez Hec, wish you'd been mine!

Congrats on the raise Gud. Mo' buckage never hurts.

In Fella update...things are going really well. Among other things, he met me at a Robert Burns supper Saturday... (btw, haggis = evil on the tongue)...

Him: I was there a while before you saw me...just watching you talk.

Me: What did you see?

Him: See?

Me: You know, was I being funny or dorky?

Him: Oh no. You were just being beautiful.

Lordy, Beej. He really is Oz. I can totally hear him saying that to S2 Willow.

He really is Oz.

This, is what I'm saying.

He doesn't have the laconic or the 20something cutiepieness but, in many respects he is Oz. So thoughtful and attentive. And really, really pays attention. Honorable and earnest.

Plus? We are starting dancing classes on Thursday. Yay! Fella backs down from no challenge!

Yay, Aimee and Gud! Good news all around.

{{askye}} Better to come clean and get it off your chest than hanging over your head like a sword. Good luck.

Beej, he sounds like a keeper, indeed. And dance lessons! I envy you.

Uh-boy. I'm overcaffeineated and pissy, and just said some things in an email to my brother that frankly needed to be said, but I'm not sure how they're going to go over. I may never hear from the kid again.

Wow, brenda. It's like we're sharing a mind connection. I'm seriously thinking about sending a similar email to *my* sister, saying "Stop being a bitch or leave me the fuck alone" and I may never hear from her again.

I'm having a shitty day. I know this because I've cried twice in the last twenty-four hours.