Hey, preaching to the choir. I thought our Lady of the Perpetual Sea Breeze was the real deal until the Divine Miss J walked right through that door and right into my ass—which is where my heart is…physiologically. I could show you an x-ray.

Lorne ,'Time Bomb'


Spike's Bitches 28: For the Safety of Puppies...and Christmas!  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Spidra Webster - Feb 02, 2006 2:27:07 pm PST #7447 of 10001
I wish I could just go somewhere to get flensed but none of the whaling ships near me take Medicare.

Can he do his homework on flypaper?

((bhp))

eta: Actually, if bad organization and/or forgetfulness are the core issues here, would the teacher be willing to let him turn in his homework via email? Math would be a little harder to show on the computer but I think Nisus Writer is supposed to handle equations and expressions well and I assume Mathematica would. I imagine they must output to M$ Word somehow...


DawnK - Feb 02, 2006 2:31:12 pm PST #7448 of 10001
giraffe mode

Oh Betsy, that sucks. Do you have one of those all-in-one printers at home? With my 4th grader, we were having the same problem, it would end up anywhere but his backpack and never make it to school, so we started making copies and putting them in his backpack, in his math book and in his lunchbox so he'd end up with at least one completed copy at school no matter what-- I know that your son is older but it might work.


brenda m - Feb 02, 2006 2:33:09 pm PST #7449 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I was just going to ask if the school is at the point yet where he could submit it electronically, at least as a backup.


Sparky1 - Feb 02, 2006 2:39:15 pm PST #7450 of 10001
Librarian Warlord

Aw, Betsy, that sounds so frustrating in a kill him/love him kind of way.

vw, I hope your head is feeling better.

They posted our new salaries with our 2% raises. I am earwormed with Seven-and-a-Half-Cents, but I will not be living like a king.


Betsy HP - Feb 02, 2006 2:41:36 pm PST #7451 of 10001
If I only had a brain...

I was just going to ask if the school is at the point yet where he could submit it electronically, at least as a backup.

Unfortunately, one of the big burning issues is that he lost his math notebook, which is a physical object containing all math class handouts, and is regularly checked for completeness. So not so much with the electron-friendliness.


vw bug - Feb 02, 2006 2:43:56 pm PST #7452 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Oh, Betsy. I'm so sorry!


billytea - Feb 02, 2006 2:46:40 pm PST #7453 of 10001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Well, crapity. I'm sorry, Betsy.


brenda m - Feb 02, 2006 2:47:49 pm PST #7454 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Oh, no. How frustrating.


DawnK - Feb 02, 2006 2:48:24 pm PST #7455 of 10001
giraffe mode

Well crud, Betsy.


Pix - Feb 02, 2006 2:57:24 pm PST #7456 of 10001
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

Betsy, I'm so sorry. You're doing everything right. Speaking as a teacher, I love parents like you and share your frustration when "our" student decides to check out.

Don't know if you're looking for advice. If you aren't, then feel free to stop reading here.

If you are, then all I can say is that that kind of behavior reaches a point where sometimes it's best to just take a step back and let them make the (bad) choice they're making. I hope that isn't the case with your son, but I've seen so many parents tie themselves in knots when their child isn't doing well. I just hope you're able to release some of that stress.