MG-SUCH a pretty cut and color for you. Very flattering to the shape of your face.

Nicole, you can DO it. Hard 'relief' vibes coming your way. And thanks for the body support. You are right. It isn't like he's never seen me before. And seriously, I'm okay with where I am now. So, I suppose, having someone else be okay with it too is a relief.

I guess...the real issue for me is not so much the heavy as it is the nekkid. I'm sooooo of two minds. Scratching the carpet and mewing...versus not wanting to get caught up in a physical relationship at the moment.

This feels sassier.

It is definitely sassier! You look great.

MG - you look beautiful!!

Ok, Family? SUCKS.

My Great-Grandmother has been under hospice care since last Monday. My Uncle Bob - my grandfather's brother - just told my grandmother TODAY. WTF?? I'm rapidly losing patience with this man. Does he not think that my mom and her brothers would want to see her before she died?? Ass. Holery. I'm telling ya.

So, it looks like another trip to Michigan might be in order soon. I hate being a fucking grown up. People die and I don't. fucking. like. it.

Oh I love that cut and color Suzi! It suits you quite nicely.

{{{Aimee}}} I hate it when people don't communicate

{{Kristin}}

{{Aimee}}

Divorce and people dying both bad sucky things.

Pfft. It's been hard enough breaking (10 so far) cigs into tiny little bits.

When I quit I phased out 5 one day, 4 the next, etc. The last day I lit the same one last cigarette maybe 15 times. I am not cold turkey girl. But it worked.

It's not just the lack of communication. It's the lack of consideration behind it. Ever since my grandfather died and my Uncle Bob got POA, he's been systematic ally going through her house and tossing shit or giving it away. He gave her tatting supplies - including the 19th century sterling silver shuttle from HER grandmother - to the freaking Ladies Aid, without asking ANYONE if they were interested. This is an art form that should be passed own. I never had the patience to learn when I was younger, but dammit, she taught me to embroider and cross-stitch and quilt. I wanted that shuttle. My mom says I should write the church and see if I can get it back, but I don't know that seems like, rude or something. But I don't want that to get lost. I want someone in our family to tat.

{{Aimee}} I'm sorry to hear about your Great-grandma. I will think smiting thoughts at your Uncle Bob. Stoopid head.

Ooooh. Asshattishness blows even more.

Things may need to get gone through, but if there's ever been a place for consideration...

{{{Aimee}}} I'm sorry, sweetie.

But I don't want that to get lost. I want someone in our family to tat.

I'd write the letter. Nothing rude about it and it's important to you. Your reasons and heart will show in what you write.