You know, I've saved lives. Dozens. Maybe hundreds. I reattached a girl's leg. Her whole leg. She named her hamster after me. I got a hamster. He drops a box of money, he gets a town.

Simon ,'Jaynestown'


Spike's Bitches 28: For the Safety of Puppies...and Christmas!  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Betsy HP - Dec 15, 2005 8:56:03 am PST #50 of 10001
If I only had a brain...

Maybe you should try being a hitman!

I can't figure out where to buy the conscience-ectomy.


Sparky1 - Dec 15, 2005 8:56:45 am PST #51 of 10001
Librarian Warlord

I can't figure out where to buy the conscience-ectomy.

Ask Dick Chaney where he had his done.


Aims - Dec 15, 2005 9:01:44 am PST #52 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Sigh.

Can I request some strength-ma? My best friend of the wedding and ring sagas got pregnant on her honeymoon. She's been having some issues, but the heartbeat was strong as of Monday.

Tuesday, it stopped. They just found out today and she's having a D&C tomorrow. They, and I, are heartbroken. So a little strength-ma for them, por favor.

Thanks.


erikaj - Dec 15, 2005 9:02:06 am PST #53 of 10001
Always Anti-fascist!

Innocent people don't get hits called out on them. "If I'm there, they probably deserve it." (/Martin Blank)


Jen - Dec 15, 2005 9:10:33 am PST #54 of 10001
love's a dream you enter though I shake and shake and shake you

Oh, Aimee, I'm so sorry for your friend. Much ~ma headed her way.

The great thing about life after middle school is that you are so seldom held captive with people who despise you and whom you despise.

This is so true, and it bears repeating. I think if I ever feel unhappy with my current lot in life, I'll remember this and be thankful.


SuziQ - Dec 15, 2005 9:11:44 am PST #55 of 10001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Oh, Empress. My thoughts are with you and your friend.

I went through something similar with CJ...yes, you read that right. This was when I was MUCH heavier. They told me there was no heartbeat and we asked for a second opinion. They tested again a week later and between the fact that I was not as far along as originally thought, and my size, they had missed it the first time. That week wait was AWFUL.


Stephanie - Dec 15, 2005 9:11:54 am PST #56 of 10001
Trust my rage

Aimee, I'm so sorry for your friend. The exact same thing happened to me, except that I lost the baby and still had to have a D&C. MIscarriage sucks no matter when it happens, but it just broke me knowing that my baby was dying in side me. The one thing that really really helped me get through it all was posting here: [link] Three years later, I still talk to these women all the time.

eta: Oh, and Suzi's situation is exactly why I waited and went through the miscarriage from hell. I just wanted to be sure I had done everything i could.


EpicTangent - Dec 15, 2005 9:12:21 am PST #57 of 10001
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Oh, Aimee, that's so hard. Much ~ma to friend and her DH.


§ ita § - Dec 15, 2005 9:13:49 am PST #58 of 10001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Oh, Aimée, that's horrible.

The great thing about life after middle school is that you are so seldom held captive with people who despise you and whom you despise.

Pardon my ignorance, but is high school a big improvement? How so -- is it the structure of the captivity that changes, or the people?

I've been more trapped with despised people in my work life than I ever was at school, but I had one of those happy schoolhoods, so I can't calibrate.


Aims - Dec 15, 2005 9:14:06 am PST #59 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Thanks, guys. Stephanie, I'll pass it on to her. She's a wreck. She's bben cramping and bleeding a bit for the past 5 days, but ER docs and her doc said as long as the baby was fine (which it was as of Monday), that it was probably the placenta implanting. She's been so hopeful.