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Spike's Bitches 28: For the Safety of Puppies...and Christmas!  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


SuziQ - Jan 07, 2006 11:20:21 am PST #3601 of 10001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

{{{Cass}}}

We had a tough morning that went much better than expected. C's dad signed his part of the guardian ship papers, saying he recommends us. This is going to make the rest of the process MUCH easier.

I went to shake his hand goodbye at the end and got pulled into a hug and he whispered "thanks" in my ear.


SailAweigh - Jan 07, 2006 11:24:01 am PST #3602 of 10001
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

MG, that is great news. It's also good to know that the man really understands what's happening and appreciates it. I hope C is feeling good about it.


DebetEsse - Jan 07, 2006 11:24:28 am PST #3603 of 10001
Woe to the fucking wicked.

{{{{Cass}}}}


SuziQ - Jan 07, 2006 11:28:36 am PST #3604 of 10001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

C is feeling crampy which seems to override everything else right now. I think overall she is happy, but it is so complicated. I can't imagine what is going on in her head right now.


brenda m - Jan 07, 2006 11:35:39 am PST #3605 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Oh, Cass. I'm glad her struggle is over, but I'm so sorry for your loss.

MG, that's so very cool.

Man, between the two of you - damn allergies.


JZ - Jan 07, 2006 11:44:24 am PST #3606 of 10001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

(((((Cass and family))))) Peace to all of you. It sounds like every one of you put forth an amazing, heroic effort, even through the suddenness and the pain, to ease your grandma's passing as much as possible, and to support one another through it all.


d - Jan 07, 2006 11:47:00 am PST #3607 of 10001
It's nice to see some brave pretenders trying to make it interesting.

{{{Cass}}}, and because it sounds like a necessary but difficult situation, {{{C}}}.


Aims - Jan 07, 2006 11:56:07 am PST #3608 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Cass}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} Call if you need any little or big thing a'tall.


Anne W. - Jan 07, 2006 12:12:01 pm PST #3609 of 10001
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

{{{{{{Cass}}}}}}} I'll be around on IM off and on through the afternoon and evening if you want to chat. My family went though some very similar things this year, and I'd be happy to lend a sympathetic ear.


Amy - Jan 07, 2006 12:58:38 pm PST #3610 of 10001
Because books.

I filled her room with pictures of her whole family, candles, fresh flowers and her favorite music.

{{{Cass}}} You're a thoughtful, loving granddaughter. Much peace to you and your family.

C's dad signed his part of the guardian ship papers, saying he recommends us.

Good news, Maidengurl!