Funny thing about black and white. You mix it together and you get gray. And it doesn't matter how much white you try and put back in, you're never gonna get anything but gray.

Lilah ,'Destiny'


Spike's Bitches 28: For the Safety of Puppies...and Christmas!  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Topic!Cindy - Jan 04, 2006 12:04:30 pm PST #3280 of 10001
What is even happening?

Exactly, Sean! Could they have waited, even until after MLK day? I think they actually send out mailers every month or so. I lose track. I'm fairly sure the teachers don't pass them all on to us.

They still offer good books too, but to the kids, the good books look a bit like spinach in a Godiva catalogue, amidst all the Care Bears, Hello Kitty, Barbie, and Cartoon based stuff. She's only in first grade. She is just starting to read, so I suppose I should let her read whatever she wants. I actually do, mostly. We have a lot of Barbie books (thanks to her father's clever placement right around her little pinkie) we've gotten at the grocery store, or whatever.

Right now, she wants less than a dollar from me, but there's something in me making me say no. I think it's the principle of the thing. She had a birthday on 11/25. Christmas just passed. Sometimes, I feel like I need to say "no" or "spend your own money" just for the lesson. Then I waffle, and think "What's the harm? She wants books, not crack." I dunno.


Sean K - Jan 04, 2006 12:09:10 pm PST #3281 of 10001
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

A dollar's not so bad, but this does actually sound like a decent time to have a "spend your own money" conversation.


Topic!Cindy - Jan 04, 2006 12:12:46 pm PST #3282 of 10001
What is even happening?

Well, that's what I initially said, and gave Christmas, her birthday, the book mobile, and having to buy a new car as reasons why I thought she should spend her own money. I want to give her the buck she wants, but I kind of feel like the lesson will be lost. I ended up telling her that we'd talk about it later. I said if we talked about it now, my answer would be no.


Gudanov - Jan 04, 2006 12:14:06 pm PST #3283 of 10001
Coding and Sleeping

My daughter really liked the A to Z mysteries series. She's read all of them I think. They looked like pretty good books. Right now she's into The Pony Pals and I've seen her reading a Little House on the Prairie book.


DavidS - Jan 04, 2006 12:37:51 pm PST #3284 of 10001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Holy Batfuck, Tep - that's bizarre and wrong to the umpteenth degree. I'm sorry.

Though, I can't help imagining your grandad Tycho Brahe style.


Cashmere - Jan 04, 2006 1:12:35 pm PST #3285 of 10001
Now tagless for your comfort.

Steph, that is indeed some deep dysfunction. Sorry it got piled on you the way it did. I feel badly for your grandpa--it must be confusing and frightening to be in pain, in the hospital with that kind of major surgery and not realize what's going on. Recovery-ma for him.

If he's senile, does Caretaker Aunt already have power of attorney for him? Can't they move the house into a trust now? Hopefully, he won't have to stay in the nursing home--just until he recovers. I know it's a possibility that he might end up needing to stay there considering his age and health, but they should be taking the necessary steps to deal with the legal and financial issues now rather than freaking out over what they didn't do.

Cindy, it makes me sad that Scholastic has gone downhill. I remember them very fondly. I think my parents were pretty adamant about spending any amount so soon after Christmas. I think the smallest gesture is a good lesson about self control and financial management, even at Miss J's age.


Emily - Jan 04, 2006 1:14:10 pm PST #3286 of 10001
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

Sean! I have no address for you. I'm not saying I'll mail you anything, just that I finally sniffed and erased the old apartment from my address book, so I need something to replace it.


Sean K - Jan 04, 2006 1:22:12 pm PST #3287 of 10001
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

Hi Em!

Address deleted.


billytea - Jan 04, 2006 1:32:14 pm PST #3288 of 10001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Steph, I feel for you, really, but this sentence made me laugh out loud. You are very funny when you are righteously pissed off.

Absomalutely. I reckon that for the rest of the day you get a pass on listening to anyone else's crap. Just tell them, "Did you lose a frikkin' NOSE? Then I don't want to hear about it!" Ok, Big!Boss gets a pass on that. Other than that, today they have no place in your ear.


billytea - Jan 04, 2006 1:46:54 pm PST #3289 of 10001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Wally report! The woman whose name I misspelled has replied. Apparently she has a kid, although her profile says otherwise. I feel better about the name-typo.

Anyway, this gives me scope to talk about my nephew, which is always good. Oh, and another woman has replied, and I think I owe someone else a phone call. 'Tis the season and all that.