Don't worry, I'm not gonna start any sword fights. I'm over that phase.

Mal ,'War Stories'


Spike's Bitches 28: For the Safety of Puppies...and Christmas!  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


SuziQ - Dec 31, 2005 8:39:45 am PST #2459 of 10001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

{{{d}}}

Sail, she says that there will be an adult there, but I'm kinda feeling grinchy. Part of it is that we are not "official" yet, gaurdian-wise, so I'd hate for something to happen that could jeapardize that, ya know?

Somehow making a bad parental decision when it is really YOUR decision to make is different. Wow, I had not realized that was part of my reticence until I wrote that out. Thanks for the free therapy.


brenda m - Dec 31, 2005 8:43:54 am PST #2460 of 10001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Oh, d, I hope thinks work out in a way that makes you happy.

I repeat, the duvet cover has been defeated.

You didn't take that on by yourself, did you? Brave woman.


SailAweigh - Dec 31, 2005 8:46:07 am PST #2461 of 10001
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

Wow, I had not realized that was part of my reticence until I wrote that out. Thanks for the free therapy.

Who said it was free? ;} Just wait until May. Bwahahaha.


SuziQ - Dec 31, 2005 8:47:47 am PST #2462 of 10001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

MAY!!!!! One of the big things that is keeping my head up these days!


Deena - Dec 31, 2005 8:48:52 am PST #2463 of 10001
How are you me? You need to stop that. Only I can be me. ~Kara

{{d}} I hope things ease for you soon.


Nora Deirdre - Dec 31, 2005 8:49:05 am PST #2464 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

So break-up we must, if only to get our lives back in order without the other clouding up the issue. I will attempt personal discovery, and will try to do that whole love yourself thing as I beat myself up so. He has things to work on as well.

This is very, very wise. good luck to you d.


Topic!Cindy - Dec 31, 2005 8:49:44 am PST #2465 of 10001
What is even happening?

d, I'm so sorry you are going through all this. If it helps to know, then know that to an outsider, it sounds to me like you are making really sound choices, and are awfully brave. Here's hoping some wonderful things come your way in 2006.

Sail, she says that there will be an adult there, but I'm kinda feeling grinchy. Part of it is that we are not "official" yet, gaurdian-wise, so I'd hate for something to happen that could jeapardize that, ya know?

Somehow making a bad parental decision when it is really YOUR decision to make is different.

I think I would feel the same way, and make the same decision, Suzi. I know that went through my head when I read your post and realized it was C and not K-Bug.

When I was a teenager, and starting to go to parties of kids my mother didn't know, she made no bones about calling the parents to (a) make sure they'd be there, and (b) that their idea of chaperoning was somewhat in the same neighborhood of her idea of chaperoning. The first time she did it (I was going to a slumber party in 7th grade, at the house of a girl I'd just met that year), I thought I would die of humiliation. I never did like it, until I was past the age where it was necessary. As a parent, I know I'll do the same thing.


Steph L. - Dec 31, 2005 8:50:52 am PST #2466 of 10001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

But we saw some shots of Mae West that made us do a rewind. I didn't find the exact shot ... but our dear Teppy could do a Mae West with ease.

Beth, you and Matt just made my DAY. I'm going to feel all Mae West for the rest of the weekend.


sj - Dec 31, 2005 8:52:55 am PST #2467 of 10001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

But we saw some shots of Mae West that made us do a rewind. I didn't find the exact shot ... but our dear Teppy could do a Mae West with ease.

Absolutely. Teppy would make a great Mae West.

{{{d}}}


SailAweigh - Dec 31, 2005 8:57:49 am PST #2468 of 10001
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

{{d}} You're doing the best you can and that's pretty damn awesome. Ease~ma to help you over the worst spots.

Suzi, what Cindy said. C will thank you for it in the long run, truly. You are only concerned about her safety and she needs to know that, even if she protests.