It's because you didn't have a strong father figure isn't it?

Joyce ,'Chosen'


Natter 41: Why Do I Click on ita's Links?!  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


§ ita § - Dec 29, 2005 2:46:31 pm PST #5978 of 10002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

cereal:

First dates and job interviews have a lot in common.

I like job interviews. I'm good at them. And they usually translate into me being wanted more.


msbelle - Dec 29, 2005 2:46:45 pm PST #5979 of 10002
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

I dunno, probably because he probably would have tried to kiss me again and Hells no.


Nilly - Dec 29, 2005 2:48:21 pm PST #5980 of 10002
Swouncing

that's not to say I'm comfortable with the idea of dating

I would like, for just the once, to go past the phase of "blind date" and telling-the-same-stories-about-myself and get to the part where I get to spend time with and know better somebedy I already like and trust.


shrift - Dec 29, 2005 2:52:19 pm PST #5981 of 10002
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

I like job interviews. I'm good at them. And they usually translate into me being wanted more.

Yes, well, that's because you're all qualified and stuff! Me, not so much. I find job interviews stressful and depressing. They make me a big ball of anxiety.


§ ita § - Dec 29, 2005 2:57:38 pm PST #5982 of 10002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

That sounded all boasty, didn't I?

Well, I do like job interviews. They're a chance to show off and playact in a way I can't imagine a first date being. I also don't mind professional rejection as much as personal, even though the concrete implications to my life are larger.


Steph L. - Dec 29, 2005 2:58:45 pm PST #5983 of 10002
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I would like, for just the once, to go past the phase of "blind date" and telling-the-same-stories-about-myself and get to the part where I get to spend time with and know better somebedy I already like and trust.

Oh, hell yes. This is me entirely.


msbelle - Dec 29, 2005 3:05:41 pm PST #5984 of 10002
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Dear Shrift,

You are too qualified. Would your current workplace be in a world of hurt were you to up and leave? I think so. SO you are qualified and valuable. When you don't believe that, a piece of porn gets burned and dies.


§ ita § - Dec 29, 2005 3:10:55 pm PST #5985 of 10002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

It would be great if you could submit the screams of panic of your current employers at your imminent departure when you applied for your next jobs.


shrift - Dec 29, 2005 3:13:19 pm PST #5986 of 10002
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

That sounded all boasty, didn't I?

Not to me. I wish I had your professional self-confidence.

Would your current workplace be in a world of hurt were you to up and leave?

Well, right now, yeah. But part of that is because I am a department of one.

When you don't believe that, a piece of porn gets burned and dies.

The bad porn or the good porn?


bon bon - Dec 29, 2005 3:13:49 pm PST #5987 of 10002
It's five thousand for kissing, ten thousand for snuggling... End of list.

You guys, I have a non-date question. Bob is having philosophy people over tonight (the convention is in town) and we bought a prepared batch of buffalo wings at the store. The wings were refrigerated. Am I supposed to heat them, and if so, how? The container isn't helpful.