May have been the losing side. Still not convinced it was the wrong one.

Mal ,'Bushwhacked'


Natter 41: Why Do I Click on ita's Links?!  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


amych - Dec 24, 2005 8:07:56 am PST #4900 of 10002
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

Kathy, there's definitely a tradition of not anticipating a baby until after it's born, lest anything bad happen -- it's not so much a religious rule as a superstition/taboo, but you may want to err on the side of caution. The standard workaround is to keep what baby gifts you get in advance at someone else's house, but depending on her sensitivities, having something called a baby shower before the birth may still feel taboo-ish to her. Maybe a going-on-leave party that's more focused on her, with instructions that people can send baby gifts after? Or alternately, a party after the baby comes home.

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Allyson - Dec 24, 2005 8:08:08 am PST #4901 of 10002
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

My cleaning list is getting some good strikethru's. Still a bit to do, but I'm getting some holiday blues. I wish I had something to open. Selfish, yeah?


Kat - Dec 24, 2005 8:10:01 am PST #4902 of 10002
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

we need to clean. and do the laundry. and repot some plants.

But really, we're going to Pain Quotidien to have breakfast breads.


Kat - Dec 24, 2005 8:10:54 am PST #4903 of 10002
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Allyson, you want to come over for dinner? porkchops, potatoes. cake.

and we'll wrap something for you to open.


§ ita § - Dec 24, 2005 8:11:12 am PST #4904 of 10002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

I do dislike when people won't accept calls from undisplayed numbers. I guess I dislike more the reasons they have to, but still.


Tom Scola - Dec 24, 2005 8:11:46 am PST #4905 of 10002
Remember that the frontier of the Rebellion is everywhere. And even the smallest act of insurrection pushes our lines forward.

I'm standing on line at Target with my last resent. It's crowded, but not soul-crushingly so.


Allyson - Dec 24, 2005 8:13:21 am PST #4906 of 10002
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

and we'll wrap something for you to open

you are teh awesome!


Jessica - Dec 24, 2005 8:13:43 am PST #4907 of 10002
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

with my last resent

Great typo.

I do dislike when people won't accept calls from undisplayed numbers.

I've never answered an "unknown caller" that wasn't a telemarketer. So I stopped. I figure, if it's a real person, they can leave a message and I'll call them back.


Allyson - Dec 24, 2005 8:14:04 am PST #4908 of 10002
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

with my last resent.

best typo evar, Tom!


Emily - Dec 24, 2005 8:14:11 am PST #4909 of 10002
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

I'm standing on line at Target with my last resent. It's crowded, but not soul-crushingly so.

You are such a geek. I adore that.

Me, I need to go shower and pack so we can drive to Providence, where I'll wait the two or three hours until my flight, and finally get into Michigan sometime after 11, forcing my mother and brother to leave the Christmas Eve service to come get me. Actually, there's no good reason my mother should have to come too; she just seems to want to. Meanwhile, I'm jealous about missing one of the two really fun church services (Christmas Eve and Easter -- there's a brass band!).