A year and a half ago, I could have eviscerated him with my thoughts. Now I can barely hurt his feelings. Things used to be so much simpler.

Anya ,'Dirty Girls'


Spike's Bitches 27: I'm Embarrassed for Our Kind.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Sparky1 - Dec 07, 2005 10:45:36 am PST #8389 of 10003
Librarian Warlord

what does it mean for you?

I think, for me, it means that while as an adult I am a non-believer, my parents sent me to Sunday school and we celebrated the Christian holidays. My family still gets together on those holidays and does some traditional things -- but gathering for an Easter ham is a family thing, like gathering for a Thanksgiving turkey, rather than a religious thing for me. I give my nieces and nephews Christmas presents, even though I'm a non-believer, because that's what they're celebrating. (I give my husband Hannuka presents, because that's what he's celebrating). But my knowledge base, and my perspective comes from being raised in a household that worshiped as Christian.

That's my start of an explanation.


Trudy Booth - Dec 07, 2005 10:46:26 am PST #8390 of 10003
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

I always figure 'culturally christian' means there is no real conviction behind it, but its to some extent how one was raised.


Laura - Dec 07, 2005 10:47:13 am PST #8391 of 10003
Our wings are not tired.

Mmmm rhubarb.

Yuck, the fun trip with Brendon and his 3 girly classmates has turned dramatic with the van having serious issues. DH reports that he heard a very loud noise then the van wasn't driving right at all. He is on the side of the road waiting for my girlfriend who works nearby to rescue the kids. Well, at least they will have a story to tell.

He says now he doesn't think it is something horrible, but he won't go on with the kids.


Emily - Dec 07, 2005 10:52:43 am PST #8392 of 10003
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

Or rather, I don't understand how someone can be part of a faith culturally but not religiously.

For me it means that I grew up with Christians and went to church and all that, go to church with my mother when appropriate, and might well get married in a church -- but don't necessarily believe in God, or Christ for that matter.


libkitty - Dec 07, 2005 10:56:23 am PST #8393 of 10003
Embrace the idea that we are the leaders we've been looking for. Grace Lee Boggs

And TSP [The Scarlett Pimpernel] is anti-Semitic as HELL, very embarrassing. Let us all pretend the last chapter doesn't exist.

This is so hilarious. I've read most of the book, and seen most of a couple of different versions of the movie, but various unexpected occurences have conspired to make me miss the end each time. Perhaps that was a good thing!

Duuuuude. Alaska's State motto could be along the lines of: We're Not Nuts, Honest.

But I don't live in Fairbanks anymore! I moved to Juneau, which is wet, but lovely.

I have a friend whose sister moved back to Fairbanks from Eagle River (near Anchorage) because she didn't like the weather farther south. I gasped in shock when I heard that, and go into a coughing and/or laughing fit each time I think of it, it's just that hysterical.


vw bug - Dec 07, 2005 10:57:29 am PST #8394 of 10003
Mostly lurking...

Emily, I'm taking more meds and going back to sleep. Toto misses you. He's lying in your spot keeping it warm for you.


Ginger - Dec 07, 2005 10:59:33 am PST #8395 of 10003
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

I have a friend whose sister moved back to Fairbanks from Eagle River (near Anchorage) because she didn't like the weather farther south.

I have cousins who retired from Wisconsin to northern Minnesota because they wanted more winter.


Trudy Booth - Dec 07, 2005 11:01:43 am PST #8396 of 10003
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

I have a friend whose sister moved back to Fairbanks from Eagle River (near Anchorage) because she didn't like the weather farther south.

I have cousins who retired from Wisconsin to northern Minnesota because they wanted more winter.

Yeah, these people don't get to use the state motto I came up with.


Emily - Dec 07, 2005 11:06:10 am PST #8397 of 10003
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

He's lying in your spot keeping it warm for you.

I read this and thought you were going to leave him on the couch while you napped. Because it's just not possible that you might notice that he's cute and then move him. No. Once he's cute, he stays! Because I'm sleepy and not all there. Good luck!

In re the religiositiness, I've had "Dirty Little Religion" stuck in my head all afternoon. Thanks, Victor.

I'll take you home to meet the congregation
We'll all get together in my tent


DavidS - Dec 07, 2005 11:06:45 am PST #8398 of 10003
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Man, your boss needs a good smiting. And some plagues.

So do we.

Thanks. I've got a red-hot priority project that's going to take all my work time (and my minions. Plus OT.) for the rest of the week, and she tried to dump something as stupid as "make FedEx labels for 34 people to receive holiday presents" and then got pissed off when I went to GoodBoss to say, "We have a prioritization issue. Can you resolve it?"

BadBoss agrees that I had high priority but that I needed to take responsibility of the issue by going to the mail room and asking them to do it. I don't have the fucking time to do that now!