I'm so evil and... skanky. And I think I'm kinda gay.

Willow ,'Storyteller'


Spike's Bitches 27: I'm Embarrassed for Our Kind.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Steph L. - Nov 22, 2005 11:08:44 am PST #6194 of 10003
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I just watched the episode of Bones that made Steph cry. It made me cry too.

Ah, I feel vindicated.


Vortex - Nov 22, 2005 11:20:37 am PST #6195 of 10003
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

was it the angsty music? tell me that it wasn't the angsty music.


Cass - Nov 22, 2005 12:15:13 pm PST #6196 of 10003
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Oh, Raq... I am so terribly sorry for your friends. I am glad she is physically okay, though I'm sure, as you said, either would gladly trade their lives right now. It's just a sadness I can't even begin to get my head around. It's too much.


beekaytee - Nov 22, 2005 12:33:25 pm PST #6197 of 10003
Compassionately intolerant

Raq, I join the chorus of sorrow for your friends. It is, truly, an unimaginable loss.

A few years ago, next week, friends lost their twins two weeks before their due dates as the result of a botched amnio. We were speechless...there just are no words. So, instead of sound, I made soup...and reflected on a scene from...of all places..."Life Goes On". On the show, a retired vet dons a white robe and plays a plaintive piece of music on a recorder, under the window of a woman who had lost a child to miscarriage. He later explained that, in Korea, the ritual helps to guide the child's spirit on its journey. I'm not sure why that gave me such great comfort but his simple words, "Some spirits just aren't meant to stay," really lightened my own grief. Enough so that I could really be there for the parents.

May all your hearts find healing. I'm so sorry.


DavidS - Nov 22, 2005 1:04:25 pm PST #6198 of 10003
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Stupid will of the people.

Seconded.

Oh, fucking hell, this day will not end. Fuck you Tuesday! You suck.


SailAweigh - Nov 22, 2005 1:07:52 pm PST #6199 of 10003
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

Raq, that is so terribly sad. My condolences.

Beej, I like the idea of a tradition like that. I'm afraid that here in America we've lost contact with many of those type traditions that could help start the healing. Traditions often have a good purpose behind them, they're not just "because it's what we've always done."


vw bug - Nov 22, 2005 1:19:32 pm PST #6200 of 10003
Mostly lurking...

I feel like a big bitch. I just chased off my roommate and his friends to his room. They were watching tv, and I was annoyed, but it's his house too, so...

But, apparently it showed, and he appologized, and they left. Now I feel like a big bitch. 'Cause, I mean, really. I could have gone to my room...one is easier than three.


SailAweigh - Nov 22, 2005 1:25:11 pm PST #6201 of 10003
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

For Jilli. Skull socks.


Aims - Nov 22, 2005 1:28:56 pm PST #6202 of 10003
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Not a bitch.

He's had tons of friends over all the time. He can hang in his own room for a bit.


amych - Nov 22, 2005 1:29:28 pm PST #6203 of 10003
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

I feel like a big bitch.

OTOH, maybe they recognized that tons of work to do trumps hanging out doing not much of anything.