I can handle the Oz Full Monty. I mean, not 'handle' handle.

Xander ,'Help'


Spike's Bitches 27: I'm Embarrassed for Our Kind.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Jessica - Nov 19, 2005 6:50:38 am PST #5730 of 10003
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

I wonder why the brain chooses to color outside the lines when it comes to memory. What's the benefit?

Mostly, it's a trade-off. The ability to remember things as well as we do also gives us the ability to misremember things, because of the way that neural pathways are created. The brain's ability to distinguish between things we actually saw and things we thought about seeing is pretty shaky, but that kind of flexibility also gives us tremendous power in other ways. (There's a really excellent book called The Seven Sins of Memory that talks about how most memory bugs are really features from a different angle.)


sj - Nov 19, 2005 6:56:21 am PST #5731 of 10003
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I wonder why the brain chooses to color outside the lines when it comes to memory. What's the benefit?

One of the things that I learned in psychology is that our mind has a template for many different things, and so even from the beginning our memories are often colored by the way we think such things are "suppose" to be.


Allyson - Nov 19, 2005 6:57:17 am PST #5732 of 10003
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

HA! From the description:

Consider this scenario: if you were watching a circle of people passing a basketball and someone dressed in a gorilla costume walked through the circle, beat his chest, and exited, of course you would notice him immediately--wouldn't you? [Researchers] filmed such a scene and showed it to people who were asked to track the movement of the ball by counting the number of passes made by one of the teams. Approximately half of the participants failed to notice the gorilla.

Hilarious. I want to believe I have a knack for remembering because I write essays. I never bring a notebook to a set, but can do a fairly thorough report. I want to believe it, but you know, still human and not Super Memory Girl. Makes me wonder how much I've written is what I thought I saw, and not what really happened. That's troublesome.


SuziQ - Nov 19, 2005 7:46:39 am PST #5733 of 10003
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Perkins - you around? E-mail sent to your gmail.


Cashmere - Nov 19, 2005 8:27:51 am PST #5734 of 10003
Now tagless for your comfort.

My brain is weird. The little tiny stuff I do all the time--I COMPLETELY forget it once I've done it. I can't tell you how many times I've pumped gas, gotten back into my car, looked in my side view mirror and I don't remember putting my gas cap back on. And yet, when I double check the mirror, the gas cap is magically on. It's like I totally skip those steps in my head. Freaky.

Sometimes, I don't even offer my own opinion because I'm too interested in the discourse that others are contributing to. I'm one of those people who is very wishy-washy. I can see both sides of the story so well, that I often have a hard time taking a firm stance of my own. I'll end up saying "what they said" to both sides and then people get pissy with me

Sail, I do this all the time!

Owen's winter coat came in today! Yay! Just in time for more snow this coming week.


erikaj - Nov 19, 2005 8:36:50 am PST #5735 of 10003
Always Anti-fascist!

Not a kerfuffle, but should my rage overwhelm me, I hope my lawyer flags MiracleMan on voir dire. But could I ever get a jury of my peers? Who are my peers? Odds are a disabled person would not be in the pool, as I've been a registered voter for ten years and never called. The retarded person question that started that discussion lo all those hours ago is complicated by the high incidence of cognitively impaired people being willing, even eager, to give false confessions when "FrankenTim" get started on that whole "Now, Jimmy, she's your neighbor. We know you wanna help us out," thing. Because they do. And they wanna be like everybody else so they pretend to understand. The disability community is very concerned about this.


Pix - Nov 19, 2005 8:37:44 am PST #5736 of 10003
The status is NOT quo.

Allyson, welcome to Bitches! Have a tiara.

Good morning everyone. I got to sleep in this morning AIWFG.

ETA: Also

Owen's winter coat came in today! Yay! Just in time for more snow this coming week.

Am I the only one who was picturing Owen suddenly growing a nice think undercoat of fur?

Yeah, thought so.


Betsy HP - Nov 19, 2005 9:01:20 am PST #5737 of 10003
If I only had a brain...

I am going to kill my son. I swear it. I am going to kill him.

He is a 12-year-old boy working on his science fair project with his best friend. ALSO a 12-year-old boy. Science fair project due Monday.

I think you can see where this is going.

He is arguing me over every. single. step he has to do, because he'd rather be playing with his friend.

DUH. He doesn't get to redefine the project -- we get to hand it in late if we go on vacation, it doesn't really say we have to include a summary, I don't have to start it if I'm still eating Jell-o -- and yet I have to fight every single battle.

URGE TO MAIM.

Remind me: this is just a 12-year-old boy. NOT A DEMON FROM HELL.


P.M. Marc - Nov 19, 2005 9:03:52 am PST #5738 of 10003
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

I can't tell you how many times I've pumped gas, gotten back into my car, looked in my side view mirror and I don't remember putting my gas cap back on. And yet, when I double check the mirror, the gas cap is magically on. It's like I totally skip those steps in my head. Freaky.

That's the wonder of procedural memory.


erikaj - Nov 19, 2005 9:07:33 am PST #5739 of 10003
Always Anti-fascist!

There could be some overlap, Betsy. But I still wouldn't break out the stakes yet.