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Spike's Bitches 27: I'm Embarrassed for Our Kind.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


dw - Nov 17, 2005 9:53:45 pm PST #5477 of 10003
Silence means security silence means approval

To me, this very clearly says that public school sucks. Here, you are saying that Annabel is going to receive a substandard education because she will be in a public school.

Then let me rephrase:

I am OK with Annabel going to public school, but I'm afraid she'll never get pushed and prodded by her teachers and peers to be the intellectual superstar we all know she's going to be. It WAS very easy FOR ME to just put on the cruise control and float through primary/secondary school without reading a book or studying, esp. if the school's purpose is less about educating and more about self-preservation and order-keeping. Then I hit college and had no study habits.

I apologize for any anger and confusion the original wording caused. It was not clearly expressed as my experience and my experience alone.


Susan W. - Nov 17, 2005 10:02:37 pm PST #5478 of 10003
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

I don't know what to say right now. This board has meant a lot to me for several years now, and I have a lot of friendships here I'd hate to lose.

But I just can't be here as things stand, so I'm leaving. My email is good, and I'll probably post on LJ.


Kat - Nov 17, 2005 10:02:49 pm PST #5479 of 10003
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

Thank you for the clarification. I've taken my issue to bureau at this link [link] since I'm actually more bothered by a pattern of behavior that is disruptive to the community.


dcp - Nov 17, 2005 10:06:23 pm PST #5480 of 10003
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

No, that wasn't sarcasm. That was sincerity. I do not understand why Kat was offended, but I recognize that she is. I do not maintain that posters don't need to apologize for an unintended offense. I recognized that my comment might easily have been found offensive. So I apologized.


ChiKat - Nov 17, 2005 10:09:12 pm PST #5481 of 10003
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

No, that wasn't sarcasm. That was sincerity

I'm sorry I read that wrong. (Just a tad sensitive right now.)


dw - Nov 17, 2005 10:26:27 pm PST #5482 of 10003
Silence means security silence means approval

I am leaving. Goodbye.


vw bug - Nov 18, 2005 2:57:08 am PST #5483 of 10003
Mostly lurking...

Wow. I'm not sure what to say. I feel I shouldn't ignore what happened last night, but I also feel like we need to move on.

So, this morning I'm offering somber timelies. I'm really sad to see Susan go, but I understand why she felt she needed to.

ION, I can't believe Thanksgiving is next week. I can't believe this week is almost over. I made it! Well, assuming that I make it through today, which it seems I will. Yay! Take that, asthma!


Cashmere - Nov 18, 2005 3:32:14 am PST #5484 of 10003
Now tagless for your comfort.

Temperatures have dropped 60 degrees here in 60 hours. I'm still trying to thaw out over a cup of tea.

You'll make it through today, vw, so YAY!

We've already got our plans for Thanksgiving (made with relatively little pain) and the dog sitter is all lined up so I don't have to worry about that.


WindSparrow - Nov 18, 2005 3:45:18 am PST #5485 of 10003
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Today is a friday which is actually a friday for me! WooHoo! I don't have to work on Saturday, and I only have to work four hours on Sunday.

Happy Friday to all!


Nora Deirdre - Nov 18, 2005 3:49:50 am PST #5486 of 10003
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

YAY vw!

ah, I love the smell of kerfuffle in the morning. Smells like.... celery.

I am not surprised it went down like this. The abusive outburst of a few weeks ago has had everyone on tenterhooks; it required resolution.

FTR, I am a product of a nurse mom, a community college professor dad (also the recipient of low edumacational respect) and they were both huge public school boosters, and I probably learned more hard academics in my public high school than I did in college.

I was actually thinking of all the teachers here at b.org last weekend, when I was writing my paper and I opened up a thesaurus I got for my righteous excellence in the subject of English in 8th grade and it was inscribed by all my favorite teachers. I thought it was cool that their work really influenced the kind of person and student that I am today.