Being told that no teacher in the school can give a cumulative final exam because it's "too difficult" for the students to remember the beginning of the year...while simultaneously also decreeing that teachers are not allowed to give midterm exams because they are "too stressful", for example.

Yes, this is the situation I am currently facing. The school used to have midterms, but parental pressure changed all that.

Annabel is one gorgeous kid. Wow.

I'm pissy and tired and defensive. I've been here since 7:30 this morning and still have hours of grading to do tonight. I also haven't eaten all day and went to three meetings between teaching and planning and writing six billion parent emails and answering voicemails. I may not be in the best state of mind right now to be having this discussion. I'm sorry. I'll try to come back when I'm not so frazzled.

Kristin, I totally sympathize. I think public school teachers rock, and between parental pressure and the dictates of state-mandated curriculum, you're not left a lot of room to be creative and really challenge the kids, I bet.

Ben and Jake have had one mediocre teacher between them, and even he was just depressed, I think. Teaching is a hard, hard gig.

No midterms and no cumulative exams?

Boggle.

Can you do end of section tests or is there no way to assess what learning goes on?

of things being done for the child

This I've seen a lot of. In fact, my son's 4th grade teacher gave F's to several of the kids on their first book report because it was obvious to her that the parents had done the work not the kids.

Children are not supposed to learn! Children are supposed to be happy and have everything done for them and kept in abubble until they are of age and then they are to be given a kick ass job where very little is expected of them and they make a ton of money!

Jeez.

You guys are all so out of it.

(Emeline! Get back in your bubble! If you want to move, Daddy will come and pick you up!)

Wow, Kristin, that's just craziness. All of it. And get some food, sweetie!

I just did a Nielson movie survey. They're so much fun!

Speaking of surveys, I'm analyzing survey data. It's slow-moving, but TOTALLY fascinating.

Being told that no teacher in the school can give a cumulative final exam because it's "too difficult" for the students to remember the beginning of the year...while simultaneously also decreeing that teachers are not allowed to give midterm exams because they are "too stressful", for example.

Um, that is totally craxy. And, God, how insanely frustrating for the teachers.

I'm sorry. I'll try to come back when I'm not so frazzled.

::hands Kristin a light snack, a chocolate martini, a lavender-scented handkerchief for her temples, and a masseuse on her way out::

Some of those things, with the cramming the kid's day with "worthwhile" activities and arguing with the teacher, seem to be a reaction to more kids going to college and more parents being aware of what colleges want -- like, if I think my kid's got a shot at Big Fancy College, then clearly he needs to be doing those everprecious "extracurriculars," and also if his history teacher gave him a poor grade that I don't think he deserved, well, that's going to affect his chances. I can see the urge to do something about it. Obviously in a lot of cases parents are overprotecting so their kids won't make mistakes, even if they could be valuable mistakes, but in other cases I think it's because of an awareness of the increasingly serious consequences of those mistakes.

Er, I think. I don't really know. I have heard that while twenty years ago the parent always sided with the teacher in a conflict, now they tend to side with the student. I'm just saying, there are more reasons than that article seems to suggest. The parents aren't doing it just because they've got smothering personalities.