Xander: Look who's got a bad case of Dark Prince envy. Dracula: Leave us. Xander: No, we're not going to "Leabbb you." And where'd you get that accent, Sesame Street? "One, Two, Three - three victims! Maw ha ha!"

'Lessons'


Spike's Bitches 27: I'm Embarrassed for Our Kind.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


vw bug - Nov 16, 2005 9:31:34 am PST #4995 of 10003
Mostly lurking...

As Jen notes, what does that have to do with what I learned?

I've learned that if I cheat, my GPA won't go down when I have a hard class.

Pegging self worth to grades is one of the worst things smart people do to themselves. I think it's really destructive.

I feel like that was directed at me. I could be wrong and just oversensitive, but this is an issue I'm working on. And, for the record, I've lowered my standards to shooting for a C in this class. I will be thrilled just to pass it. And I think I will...'cause if I didn't think I would I would be dropping it and taking it again next year.

And I am a bit of a grade whore, as I was discussing with MG on IM this morning. I don't think there's anything wrong with feeling good when one gets a good grade - one they've worked hard for.


Steph L. - Nov 16, 2005 9:31:57 am PST #4996 of 10003
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Pegging self worth to grades is one of the worst things smart people do to themselves. I think it's really destructive.

I agree with that, as a stand-alone statement. But I don't think it ties in to cheating. Reporting cheaters has nothing to do with grades and/or what a student learns; it has to do with what's right.

(That said, I would have been too chicken to have reported anyone in college. My wee screed of What's Right comes from the wise old age of 34.)

ION, I'm editing an article about methadone, and the author keeps using the phrase "heroine addiction." I want to ask which heroine -- Wonder Woman? Sojourner Truth?


P.M. Marc - Nov 16, 2005 9:32:06 am PST #4997 of 10003
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

That's different than telling on a co-worker who arrives work to late every day, just because you resent the fact that they haven't been caught and you make every effort to get in on time.

Cheating, esp. in a grade-on-curve class, is more severe than coming late to work.


Calli - Nov 16, 2005 9:32:45 am PST #4998 of 10003
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Wonder Woman? Sojourner Truth?

Xena!


Jessica - Nov 16, 2005 9:33:37 am PST #4999 of 10003
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

I want to ask which heroine -- Wonder Woman? Sojourner Truth?

Buffy, duh!


erikaj - Nov 16, 2005 9:33:54 am PST #5000 of 10003
Always Anti-fascist!

Gotta go with Hec, here. Code of the streets. Nobody likes a rat. I think I would go home and visualize them tumors. "Leave them to heaven..." Billy Shakespeare


Emily - Nov 16, 2005 9:34:03 am PST #5001 of 10003
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

There are a huge hump of things wrong with grades anyway, and don't get me started on grading on a curve. But this isn't even necessarily about self-worth -- other things can depend on your grades, like admission to other classes or graduate programs, or sometimes scholarships.

Then again, when I was at BU I did feel a stronger loyalty to my peers than to my teachers, because I didn't feel like the teachers were making the effort to actually teach, and the students were very much on our own. I felt that the teachers had pretty much broken the compact that says, "the students work on learning, and the teacher helps them."

Eh. I've got too much work to engage much. I do see both sides, but from the teaching point of view... arrgh! How can I teach you if you won't bother working on learning?


amych - Nov 16, 2005 9:34:12 am PST #5002 of 10003
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

Buffy, duh!

I know I'm addicted.


DavidS - Nov 16, 2005 9:34:23 am PST #5003 of 10003
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

But as long as I'm not forced to choose sides, I'm fine with watching them dig their own graves.

Your argument is more positive than mine, and I agree with your fundamental points entirely. The point of going to school is to learn and master the material. Focusing on the competitive aspect misplaces the real point of an education. If they cheat, they don't learn.

There are certainly instances, as Calli notes, where the hierarchy is more worthy of loyalty than peers. Certainly my college was more deserving of me affection and loyalty than the frat boys who had large files of term papers which had been plagiarized for years. And yet, I never would've turned them in.

Informing on somebody just sits wrong with me. The offense would have to be genuinely harmful to a person or institution rather than just an offense against the abstract principles of Justice and Fair Play.


Aims - Nov 16, 2005 9:36:26 am PST #5004 of 10003
Shit's all sorts of different now.

How is "cheating is wrong" abstract?