I'm a single undead gal trying to make it in the big city. I have to start somewhere and they're evil here. They don't judge. They've got necro-tempered glass. No burning up. A great medical plan, and who needs dental more than us?

Harmony ,'Conviction (1)'


Spike's Bitches 27: I'm Embarrassed for Our Kind.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Aims - Oct 24, 2005 11:32:03 am PDT #283 of 10003
Shit's all sorts of different now.

It won't let me in!!!


Steph L. - Oct 24, 2005 11:32:38 am PDT #284 of 10003
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Maria, the username (or password) isn't working for me.

t edit It should be earthlink DOT net, rather than dot com.


Cashmere - Oct 24, 2005 11:33:39 am PDT #285 of 10003
Now tagless for your comfort.

Maria, is that earthlink dot COM or dot NET?

And Owen's learned to take his shirt off and refuses to keep one on today.


Maria - Oct 24, 2005 11:34:18 am PDT #286 of 10003
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

Duh. Change the dot com to dot net.

Then it will work.

Edit: and of course x-posty. Thanks Tep and Cash.


Jars - Oct 24, 2005 11:35:36 am PDT #287 of 10003

Is this the wrong audience for saying that I feel for the bully too? I'm not excusing his behaviour in the slightest, because it was reprehensible, and he should be taught to realise the ramifications of his actions. But, in my experience, bullying tends to be a learned behaviour. And at thirteen there's only so many places he could have learned it.


Burrell - Oct 24, 2005 11:36:07 am PDT #288 of 10003
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Sparky, that's serious bullying. Breaking bones? Egad.


Burrell - Oct 24, 2005 11:36:59 am PDT #289 of 10003
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

And at thirteen there's only so many places he could have learned it.

And school is one of them. That's part of the problem.


Cashmere - Oct 24, 2005 11:38:30 am PDT #290 of 10003
Now tagless for your comfort.

Is this the wrong audience for saying that I feel for the bully too? I'm not excusing his behaviour in the slightest, because it was reprehensible, and he should be taught to realise the ramifications of his actions. But, in my experience, bullying tends to be a learned behaviour. And at thirteen there's only so many places he could have learned it.

While I agree some emotional sympathy might be due the bully, I'm more Mamma Bear when it comes to a child getting seriously, physically injured. I would hope that in addition to punishment, that the bully gets counseling on NOT being a bully. The odds are slim, though. And someone who breaks another kid's ankle at 13 is probably just going to grow up to do more damage later in life as an adult.

That's what scares me about situations like this.


Steph L. - Oct 24, 2005 11:42:13 am PDT #291 of 10003
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

I love love LOVE the picture of Maria and hubby on this page (right-hand picture): [link] .


Ginger - Oct 24, 2005 11:45:22 am PDT #292 of 10003
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

That's a bit more merciful than I thought you were going for, Ginger. I've misjudged you.

Did I say how long he was going to be suspended by his thumbs? I'm thinking a couple of days.

Maria is so beautiful. Her DH is handsome. The flower girl is scene-stealing. The cakes are amazing.