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Spike's Bitches 27: I'm Embarrassed for Our Kind.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Betsy HP - Oct 24, 2005 11:05:44 am PDT #266 of 10003
If I only had a brain...

Sparky, your sister should call the principal ASAP.

I know, because last week I had to call the principal about bullying. He came down like the wrath of God; some kids were suspended. He says California law does NOT allow this behavior.

Any sane principal who is confronted with a kid with a broken leg is going to be afraid enough to take action.


Volans - Oct 24, 2005 11:09:41 am PDT #267 of 10003
move out and draw fire

Maria, you were a gorgeous bride! I love the color of the bridesmaid's dresses also.

Healing~ma to your nephlet, Sparky. And I'll be wishing fractured bones for the bully too (because I'm that kind of person).


Sparky1 - Oct 24, 2005 11:14:36 am PDT #268 of 10003
Librarian Warlord

The actual ankle fracturing took place on Friday, so my sister has been in touch with the Principal and the school has told her they are investigating. My guess is the lawyers spoke with the school parties involved while my sister was in the ER with my nephew, so no one is going to say much of anything at the moment.

Just so I'm clear, I'm not scared that my sister will get steamrolled by the system. She's not going to go away quietly.


Betsy HP - Oct 24, 2005 11:15:33 am PDT #269 of 10003
If I only had a brain...

If anybody makes any attempt to say "kids will be kids", hit 'em with this:

[link]

The school is required to have a school safety plan, and that plan is required to include

(A) Child abuse reporting procedures consistent with Article 2.5 (commencing with Section 11164) of Title 1 of Part 4 of the Penal Code. (42 U.S.C. Sec. 12101 et seq.). (C) Policies pursuant to subdivision (d) of Section 48915 for pupils who committed an act listed in subdivision (c) of Section 48915 and other school-designated serious acts which would lead to suspension, expulsion, or mandatory expulsion recommendations pursuant to Article 1 (commencing with Section 48900) of Chapter 6 of Part 27. (D) Procedures to notify teachers of dangerous pupils pursuant to Section 49079.

I'm upset about this because it could have been my kid, and because the protections available to kids in 2006 are much better than those available in 1976. Your nephew has grounds for a police report.

[xpost: Sounds like you have it under control. I'm overreacting because I'm white with rage.]


JohnSweden - Oct 24, 2005 11:15:54 am PDT #270 of 10003
I can't even.

Any sane principal who is confronted with a kid with a broken leg is going to be afraid enough to take action.

Yep. If nothing is done, it won't get any better. The original teacher, the late gym teacher and the principal should all get to share the fun of an angry parent face-to-face.

eta: x-posty. Good for your sister, Sparky


beth b - Oct 24, 2005 11:21:17 am PDT #271 of 10003
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

sending healing ma~~ to Kyle and some take the responsibility ma~~ to all involved teachers, principal, bully and parents of bully.


P.M. Marc - Oct 24, 2005 11:22:52 am PDT #272 of 10003
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Plus, I like all the in laws too. However, when we all lived within spitting distance - it was all crazy. really crazy. If I hated them - it would have been easy. The best I could do when we were near family - was to make sure it wasn't going to kill us - and make sure that no one ( including DH) tried to change the schedual. Being the hardass around the holidays - less fun than you'd imagine.

Exactly!

There are so many times I'd like to drop Annabel off at one of her grandmother's houses for the evening, but that's hard to do with the closest one being two flights and 2000 miles away.

If it helps, it's not a sure thing with them in the same city, either. My mother's a little easier than finding an outside the family babysitter, but she's made clear that she's not going to be on call for it, and that as much as she loves us and Lillian, she'd prefer to be asked as rarely as possible. My in-laws work--nights for my FiL--so they're also not an option most of the time. Your Parents May Vary, but I've found they're on par with friends when it comes to time and willingness to kidsit.

These are the questions I would askabout the job. (to dw)

Also, what are their benefits like? Retirement as well as medical. Are you vested in your University pension plan thing already? I can't remember.

Healing vibes for Kyle.

Maria, your dress looks incredible. Your family looks incredible. That food looks incredible!


Ginger - Oct 24, 2005 11:24:30 am PDT #273 of 10003
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

The bully should be suspended -- literally.

I just purchased a bag of "fun-size" packages of mini Oreos in case I get any trick-or-treaters. I had to eat some, to make sure that there weren't any poison Oreos. I'd like to report that the quality control in terms of how many Oreos get in a package is very poor. One package had only one mini Oreo in it. Do you know how pathetic one mini Oreo is?


tommyrot - Oct 24, 2005 11:25:31 am PDT #274 of 10003
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

The bully should be suspended -- literally.

By his thumbs?


Ginger - Oct 24, 2005 11:26:20 am PDT #275 of 10003
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

Thumbs, hair, toes. It's all the same to me.