Death is your art. You make it with your hands day after day. That final gasp, that look of peace. And part of you is desperate to know: What's it like? Where does it lead you? And now you see, that's the secret. Not the punch you didn't throw or the kicks you didn't land. She really wanted it. Every Slayer has a death wish. Even you.

Spike ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Spike's Bitches 27: I'm Embarrassed for Our Kind.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


juliana - Oct 31, 2005 12:05:41 pm PST #1702 of 10003
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

Are there any energy workers/healers or recipients of energy work people about? I have some questions and would like advice/opinions.

I have received, but there may be a delay in asnwering, or you can email me at my profile addy if you'd like to take it off-board. Whatever's best for you.


Aims - Oct 31, 2005 12:05:45 pm PST #1703 of 10003
Shit's all sorts of different now.

And Susan, Annabel is just as beautiful as ever. And so tall. Em still look positively newborn in her Pack n Play.


Maria - Oct 31, 2005 12:06:26 pm PST #1704 of 10003
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

Whoa.

No shit. We'll get our pre-approval letter this week. I'm feeling all kinds of grown up right now. Dude, when did that happen?

Susan and dw have made a beautiful young lady. Gorgeous eyes and a wonderful smile.


beth b - Oct 31, 2005 12:06:33 pm PST #1705 of 10003
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Was Leif tired?

When i think of fat babies , I think of my sister- who was a baby buddha. - but ended up looking like my mom's side of the family - thin heading towards the skinny side. It is one of those baby myteries.


DavidS - Oct 31, 2005 12:07:40 pm PST #1706 of 10003
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

But still! Mobility, kid! You know you want it!

Heh. Considering that her mother is well content to spend an entire weekend in bed (as long as she has a laptop or stack of books), I'm not sure why you think the disinterest in mobility is unusual.

I'm very convinced that baby mobility is driven entirely by baby's desire to move (with rare exceptions). Some babies can contemplate the entire universe while sitting still, and that's sufficient.

When Emmett was little I was anxious about his potty training and whether he'd ever sleep through the night. Those aren't issues anymore.

Currently he's in a sort of no-worry zone, but I don't take that for granted and consciously remind myself of that fact.

Most of my worrying about Emmett was definitely about how the divorce would affect him.


Jen - Oct 31, 2005 12:08:24 pm PST #1707 of 10003
love's a dream you enter though I shake and shake and shake you

Susan, she's almost 3' tall?! Dear God, where does the time go?

Something that just occured to me: I talked super-super-early (8 months) and walked super-super-late (16 months). As far as I know, my mother never took me to a physical therapist or anything like that to figure out why I couldn't walk.

And I wonder, if Annabel were doing things in that order, if you'd be worried. If she'd been talking in two-word sentences two months ago but not moving around without your help, would you worry that she was developmentally delayed somehow? Would you think she had juvenile myasthenia gravis or some other pathology that was weakening her muscles?

I ask this because I know how important words are to you, and how much you value speech; Annabel's development in that area seems slow to you because it's the thing you find most important. If she were doing the things you long for her to do so much, but not doing others, I'm willing to bet that you'd be far less worried about it.

I'm not trying to talk you out of anything (though I do think the speech therapist consult will end up being unncessary). It's just a thought, and if it's a perspective you hadn't considered before, I hope it's a helpful thought.


Aims - Oct 31, 2005 12:08:26 pm PST #1708 of 10003
Shit's all sorts of different now.

How does Joe feel about Wills?

He accepts it that he'll get a dukedom out of the deal.


Gudanov - Oct 31, 2005 12:08:40 pm PST #1709 of 10003
Coding and Sleeping

There was also the birthday party that we all went to. When the lights went off all of a sudden the first thing my wife said was "Where's Leif?". Sure enough, the blackout was Leif caused.


beth b - Oct 31, 2005 12:10:30 pm PST #1710 of 10003
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

so it wasn't that Leif was calm this weekend - he's just giving you amnesia on top of everything else.


Gudanov - Oct 31, 2005 12:11:02 pm PST #1711 of 10003
Coding and Sleeping

Yeah, pretty much.