I am thinking not her mother, just a motherly person to do some things and to lay down some rules sometimes.

Yeah, I stopped visitng my Grandmother the last year of her life when she stopped recognising anyone. She had a loooong slide into dementia. She stopped knowing who I was for a couple of years, but was still glad to see me, so I always visited. Then she stopped being able to talk, but was still happy for company, so that was fine, since it clearly made her happy to have me there. Finally, she stopped being interested in people at all and slept most of the time. She got very good care, but my dad's health was so precarious by the end that I didn't want to take time away from him to spend the half day required to drive to the nursing home to sit at the bedside of a woman who had no idea I was there. He died about four months before she did.

ETA: It might mean something to your dad to write a letter about the good things you remember about his mom--thel etters, and whatever other memories you can dredge up. Then you can feel like you did something for him, which might make you feel better too.

a motherly person to do some things and to lay down some rules sometimes.

Can he be cute, and sometimes just lay with not so much rules?

see, it is just that type of thinking that makes me think you need decision making help. You are overtired and banged up, hitting it shouldn't be high on the list, missy.

to lay down some rules sometimes.

I'm not a motherly type, but I am bossy. I'll be happy to lay down some rules for ita.

You are overtired and banged up, hitting it shouldn't be high on the list, missy.

Hey, now. I was just talking cuddling.

Nah, I'm not going to argue against the point that I could do with a caretaker. In all honesty, I'm piss poor at taking care of myself when it gets like it is now.

I think it's going to be that kind of a weekend. I just found out my cousin's husband was killed in a car crash. I'm not sure if I ever met the guy, so not personally traumatic to me, but my cousin lost her first husband (a county sherriff) when he was shot by a perp and their youngest son has been in a permanent vegetative state for about 4/5 of his life. The poor woman has undergone more tragedy than 10 people should suffer.

How much of Wonderfalls am I supposed to watch before I give it a general "eh"? I've watched the first 4 today, most of which I saw the first time, and I'm still at eh.

I think if #1 and #2 didn't win you over, the series as a whole doesn't have much of a shot.

The poor woman has undergone more tragedy than 10 people should suffer.

Jesus. You're not wrong.

goodness Matt, that is awful.

Matt, that beggars the imagination. How utterly terrible.