Mal: Does she understand that? River: She understands. She doesn't comprehend.

'Objects In Space'


Natter 39 and Holding  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Jessica - Oct 13, 2005 11:53:54 am PDT #5896 of 10002
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Note to career women from the NY Times, don't cry at work.

"When people show emotionalism in the workplace, they are not taken as seriously," said Mary Gatta, the director of work force policy and research at the Center for Women and Work at Rutgers University.

Men learned this lesson back in the late 18th and early 19th centuries, when the Industrial Revolution structured the workplace and the workday, and required a disciplined work force, said Tom Lutz, the director of the M.F.A. writing program at the California Institute of the Arts and the author of "Crying: The Natural and Cultural History of Tears." Factory managers trained their workers to be calm and rational, the better to be productive. "You don't want emotions interfering with the smooth running of things," Mr. Lutz said.

Women for the most part did not receive this particular kind of on-the-job training. Nor did they usually learn, as boys did, that it was acceptable to express frustration in other ways.

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Jesse - Oct 13, 2005 11:54:58 am PDT #5897 of 10002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

...something something dishes that are Applebee's delicious!

This is why I can't even think about awful songs. I still know all the words, and I don't like them!


Steph L. - Oct 13, 2005 11:56:27 am PDT #5898 of 10002
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Nor did they usually learn, as boys did, that it was acceptable to express frustration in other ways.

Like repression?


Jesse - Oct 13, 2005 11:57:33 am PDT #5899 of 10002
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

(OK, maybe not ALL the words.)

Note to career women from the NY Times, don't cry at work.

OMTFG. Mostly today I feel bad for my friend who just got into a fight with her boyfriend yesterday about this very issue.


Jessica - Oct 13, 2005 11:58:04 am PDT #5900 of 10002
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Like repression?

Dude, throwing things.


msbelle - Oct 13, 2005 11:58:15 am PDT #5901 of 10002
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

I watch Criminal Minds and like it.

Today's why I cherish ita....

I cherish ita's very specific food tastes, even when I find them odd, maybe especially when I do.


tommyrot - Oct 13, 2005 11:59:30 am PDT #5902 of 10002
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

I used to cry easily when I was in grade school. I caught a lot of shit for it - from my dad, teachers and students.

Nor did they usually learn, as boys did, that it was acceptable to express frustration in other ways.

Hittin' people. Smashin' stuff.


Jessica - Oct 13, 2005 12:00:38 pm PDT #5903 of 10002
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

I used to cry easily when I was in grade school. I caught a lot of shit for it - from my dad, teachers and students

And no wonder -- you were supposed to have learnt not to back in the 18th century. Get with the program, man!


§ ita § - Oct 13, 2005 12:00:53 pm PDT #5904 of 10002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Not diluting the chocolate is perfectly sane. Not odd at all.

I wish someone had told me to not cry at work, otherwise ... wait, apart from in the restroom, still never cried at work. And the more "male" alternatives would have gotten me arrested.


Cashmere - Oct 13, 2005 12:01:24 pm PDT #5905 of 10002
Now tagless for your comfort.

HIMYM has been picked up! Now, we need to hear about Kitchen Confidential.

I was happy to hear that My Name is Earl got the go ahead for 22 eps, too.