In other news, my knee hurts. It's always been a bit tricky (slightly arthritic), and I did something yesterday to aggravate it. Now, my ankle and hip hurt from compensating for the ouch.

So, I'm going to try to stay off my feet for a much of the day as possible, and go out of my way to avoid using the stairs. Fortunately, my bedroom is on the ground floor.

Ginger, I'd have been just as petty with the buildup of the margarita sending back and stuff. That kind of thing just makes me tense.

Going out to dinner in a big group is really tough, for me, for the reasons you mention, as well as the whole get the group there and sitting down factor. The most civilized way I've seen this play out is, everyone looks at the bill and throws in what they owe. The only problem with this is sometimes people underestimate or round down or whatever or don't take into account tax or tip. As someone who often likes that extra cocktail or treating myself to steak, I never suggest splitting however many ways, unless its really pretty clear everyone's on the same page, ordering-wise.

But I tend not to try to economize when going out with a group of folks, because I know I'll pay for more than what I had. If that makes any sense. May has well have the nice wine and steak, I'll be paying for it either way. But those are just my gluttonous ways.

Uh, not here. Writing paper. It's going OK so far.

Ouch, Anne! I hope it feels better soon.

I am reminded of Friends. Sometimes even the $10.00 difference is enough to have serious impact, and since the point is supposed to be about the joy of the company and not about being an ass, the bill should be split properly and no one should grumble about it. Mostly, I dislike any situation where my concerns are taken to mean I'm stupid, petty or tightfisted.

Number 4 was Cher's If I Could Turn Back Time, or as Brendan called it, If I Could Straddle The Military.

We call that video, "If I Could Find My Clothes."

I normally don't drink, and so I'm very very touchy about that particular habit. I have started taking the bill and telling everyone what their share is, if people have ordered different things (some alcohol, some not; some appetizers, some not).

The WORST was a b-day dinner where one person asked the waiter to bring a nice wine for the table. The waiter, smelling profit, did. I didn't have any, neither did another person, and our dinners were about $10 each. Including splitting the b-day person's dinner 8 ways, the bill came to FIFTY DOLLARS A PERSON.

To be fair, not even the guy who'd gotten us into that predicament thought it was okay.

Question: My sewing tasks are piling up (repairs, drapery hemming, etc). I was thinking about getting one of those handheld stitcher thingies so I don't have to worry about power/voltage issues. Has anyone used one? Are they decent for small jobs?

The most civilized way I've seen this play out is, everyone looks at the bill and throws in what they owe.

That's what we usually do and I ordered thinking that's what we'd do. I was also in a bad mood going in, which certainly didn't help my view of things. My neighbor had a yard sale and I went in with her, but there was a lot of packing and unpacking of stuff for very little money. The last yard sale I had was about 10 years ago and I swore I'd never do it again. I suppose I'm ahead in that I made about $25 and made up my mind to send a lot of the stuff off the the Goodwill. Still, if I ever happen to mention "yard sale" again, feel free to question my sanity.

Legion is such a funny name for a cat. 'Cause she acts possessed?

Legion is such a funny name for a cat. 'Cause she acts possessed?

Yep. Like most kittens, Legion was a little psychotic, and seemingly contained multitudes.

But, we had sort of a tradition of giving cats religiousy names. The previous ones were Retribution and Penance (Retro and Penny). They were also named for their personalities, but in a Puritan way.

Here's a picture of the neighbor's split tree: [link]