VW, Sparky's note looks good.
Captain was looking for a pilot. I found a husband. Seemed to work out.
Zoe ,'Bushwhacked'
Spike's Bitches 26: Damn right I'm impure!
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P.M. Marc - Oct 07, 2005 10:12:38 am PDT #7137 of 10001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear
vw bug - Oct 07, 2005 10:13:57 am PDT #7138 of 10001
Mostly lurking...
Yeah, I like that. I think I'll send him that, and that way I can still deal with it tomorrow.
lisah - Oct 07, 2005 10:14:27 am PDT #7139 of 10001
Punishingly Intricate
VW, Sparky's note looks good.
If I was a professor it would work for me I think.
Sparky1 - Oct 07, 2005 10:17:20 am PDT #7140 of 10001
Librarian Warlord
You just remember that getting yourself taken care of is more important than trying to manage any anger he might have.
You could also add a line acknowledging your mistake in not calling the office without going into any more of an explanation about why you didn't call.
Topic!Cindy - Oct 07, 2005 10:27:39 am PDT #7141 of 10001
What is even happening?
Ok...it's bad. He's upset...rightfully so. I just...I just couldn't deal with it then. It was too big.Okay, what you posted of what he said later on, doesn't read as upset to me as it probably reads to you. He's letting you know the expectations. That's fair enough.
I feel like I need to respond, and soon. But, I wasn't going to deal with this till tomorrow. I don't know what to do.
What will make you feel better? Here are some of what I can see for your choices:
- You can wait until tomorrow. This only works if you can put it out of your head until then.
- You can send a short note saying something along the lines of:
I was absent due to illness. I'm still working on it with my healthcare provider. I am sorry I let you down. Thank you for clarifying your expectations. I hope to address this with you further, when I'm feeling better.
- You can send a longer note, and tell him whatever you think he needs to know (I wouldn't opt for this right now, because you're still getting yourself back on track right now)
Glamcookie - Oct 07, 2005 10:28:18 am PDT #7142 of 10001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
Ditto on Sparky's note. Everyone makes mistakes. Not everyone tries to make it right and since you will, he'll forgive and move on.
Thank you for the link, Plei!!! I haven't been to LUSH in a while.
I'm holding my co-workers adorable black chihuahua mix in my lap right now AIFG!
beth b - Oct 07, 2005 10:29:47 am PDT #7143 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
I am sorry I did not notify you of the situation . Please pass on my apolgizes to the class.
that's what I would add to sparky's note.
vw bug - Oct 07, 2005 10:33:54 am PDT #7144 of 10001
Mostly lurking...
Ok...e-mail sent. I'll see if I hear anything back. Otherwise, I'll send him something more tomorrow, after I've talked with my therapist.
beth b - Oct 07, 2005 10:34:01 am PDT #7145 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
ION, beef stew is started and soon to make cake for the celebration of Matt's birthday. His birthday isn't until Sunday, but tonight is the Niles art walk. On art walk night we usally do dinner with friends so I decided to make it a mini celebration.
Sparky1 - Oct 07, 2005 10:34:51 am PDT #7146 of 10001
Librarian Warlord
I'm holding my co-workers adorable black chihuahua mix in my lap right now AIFG!
I call I get to hold him next!!
kicks distance in between me and that doggie!