Wesley: I stabbed you. I should apologize for that. But I'm honestly not sure how. I think it'll just be awkward. Gunn: Good call. Wesley: Okay.

'Time Bomb'


Spike's Bitches 26: Damn right I'm impure!  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Topic!Cindy - Sep 23, 2005 3:36:07 am PDT #4632 of 10001
What is even happening?

Thank you, WindSparrow. I have marked your post and will pass that on! The price is certainly right.


SuziQ - Sep 23, 2005 4:01:55 am PDT #4633 of 10001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Timelies!


Calli - Sep 23, 2005 4:17:38 am PDT #4634 of 10001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I hope one (or more) of your offers turns out to be a terrific job, Trudy.

The whole porn thing upthread's kind of amusing. I don't really have a dog in the religious relationship to porn/chick flick thing (I read straight up porn way more than romances, and I'm not a member of the religious right), aside from wondering why the FBI would be involved in any of it. But I do sometime wonder if the whole Thou shalt not read Silhouette Romances thing is an attempt to lower expectations on the part of the extreme religious right. If a woman marries as a virgin, never reads any racey novels, never plays with herself, and never has an affair or gets divorced, she's not going to have a lot to compare her one and only fella to. She might be less inclined to pressure her husband to bother with things like figuring out how to get her off or help out around the house so she has more energy for good sex, etc. if she doesn't know that hot, multi-orgasmic sex is an option. If the goal is to produce undemanding, obedient brood mares for the patriarchy, that does seem to be one way to go about it.

On the other hand, my sister's a Conservative Christian who reads sexy romances and, from all non-explicite conversations, seems to have a blast with her fella. So my feminist, anti-religious right cynicism may be in over-drive on this issue.


WindSparrow - Sep 23, 2005 4:56:45 am PDT #4635 of 10001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

I've always figured really sane, truly virtuous religious right sexual morality would more closely resemble the sexual morality espoused in your average Shakespeare comedy: well aware of sex, can talk and laugh about it, planning to enjoy it robustly when married. This victorian smothering the candle under a bushel-basket thing never really made sense to me.

P.S. My idea of a chick flick is anything with Rutger Hauer in it. Which, other than Lady Hawk pretty much ain't.


vw bug - Sep 23, 2005 5:07:21 am PDT #4636 of 10001
Mostly lurking...

Busy, busy day today. Already had a doctor's appointment (see LiveJournal about that. CRAZINESS!). Now I'm at school. Gotta run and get my big loan check. Then it's off to classes, then off to work. I'm done at 5:30. Someone remind me I can do all this!


erikaj - Sep 23, 2005 5:07:54 am PDT #4637 of 10001
Always Anti-fascist!

I'm kind of afraid of him. And not in that good way in which I get afraid of Detective Stabler. I can't really explain it.


amych - Sep 23, 2005 5:10:29 am PDT #4638 of 10001
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

You can absolutely do it, bug.


SuziQ - Sep 23, 2005 5:15:01 am PDT #4639 of 10001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Today is blood drive day again. I have been organizing these for years. And for the last year, I have popped up as too anemic to donate. And yet, I keep making appointments and trying to donate....10:30 today I get to try again.

I take iron suppliments. I eat some red meat, though not all the time. I am not drinking tea today (not sure how that affects iron levels, but someone told me it does). GAH.


SuziQ - Sep 23, 2005 5:15:06 am PDT #4640 of 10001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Today is blood drive day again. I have been organizing these for years. And for the last year, I have popped up as too anemic to donate. And yet, I keep making appointments and trying to donate....10:30 today I get to try again.

I take iron suppliments. I eat some red meat, though not all the time. I am not drinking tea today (not sure how that affects iron levels, but someone told me it does). GAH.


Calli - Sep 23, 2005 5:19:07 am PDT #4641 of 10001
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Go vw! You can totally do it!

Good luck, Maidengurl. I've had trouble donating in the past when the blood just stopped flowing into the bag. It's kinda frustrating.

I've always figured really sane, truly virtuous religious right sexual morality would more closely resemble the sexual morality espoused in your average Shakespeare comedy: well aware of sex, can talk and laugh about it, planning to enjoy it robustly when married.

That's a sexual morality I could understand. Not that I'm the arbiter of such things. Still, it makes sense to me.