Spike: We got a history, him and me. Fred: What? Spike: It was a long time ago. He was a young Watcher, fresh out of the academy when we crossed paths. It was a, what-you-call battle of wills and blood was spilled. Vendettas were sworn. It was a whole-- Fred: My God you're so full of crap. Spike: Yeah. Okay.

'Unleashed'


Spike's Bitches 26: Damn right I'm impure!  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risque (and frisque), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Nora Deirdre - Sep 15, 2005 8:15:51 am PDT #3185 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

I don't know WHY we need the money. I really don't. I look at our budget and wonder WTF?

Have you done that thing where you track every single thing you spend money on, write it down?

When we did that, the first item was: "$1.29 - Target - notebook to track expenses."

Seriously, though, it helps with seeing where exactly the money does go. We were pretty shocked, and we thought we were pretty frugal. This might help you with sticking to the budget, therefore not necessitating a second job.

I wouldn't have said anything except for how you phrased it.


Sparky1 - Sep 15, 2005 8:15:53 am PDT #3186 of 10001
Librarian Warlord

But we need the money.

You need sleep and time with your family, too. I hatessss the idea of you giving these things up because of budget pressures. ::shakes fist at universe::


Aims - Sep 15, 2005 8:17:47 am PDT #3187 of 10001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

I actually do KNOW where the $$ goes - I don't have groceries, car gas, or cigarettes worked into our budget. It's mostly just a list of bills subtracted from our take home pay.


Nora Deirdre - Sep 15, 2005 8:18:33 am PDT #3188 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

I don't have groceries, car gas, or cigarettes worked into our budget.

Ah. So the second job would cover these expenses?


Steph L. - Sep 15, 2005 8:19:54 am PDT #3189 of 10001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I currently work from 8:30-5. I could sleep from 6-10, work from 11-4, catch a nap from 5-6 and then start over

Oh, honey. Even if you manage to fall asleep immediately each time, that's 5 hours a night. You'll burn out so fast, it won't be worth it.


Nora Deirdre - Sep 15, 2005 8:20:35 am PDT #3190 of 10001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Even if you manage to fall asleep immediately each time, that's 5 hours a night. You'll burn out so fast, it won't be worth it.

This is true.


Steph L. - Sep 15, 2005 8:23:26 am PDT #3191 of 10001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

And, honestly, I can't imagine it being more than 4 hours a night, really. There's always something. Phone calls, baby girl, dumb dog, spazzy cat, hungry husband.


WindSparrow - Sep 15, 2005 8:28:33 am PDT #3192 of 10001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Happy birthday, Nora!

I had a gay friend who thought it was cool when straight women had crushes on him. He would flirt up a storm with these women and do other things to encourage the crushes.

In Teppy's shoes, I would be so tempted to mention this story to Crush!Boy next time he acts up. OTOH it might not be conducive to actually being friends.


Volans - Sep 15, 2005 8:31:20 am PDT #3193 of 10001
move out and draw fire

Aimee, your sanity is worth more than that! I feel like Peaches the Starfish: "There has to be another way!!!"


Susan W. - Sep 15, 2005 8:31:49 am PDT #3194 of 10001
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Oh, honey. Even if you manage to fall asleep immediately each time, that's 5 hours a night. You'll burn out so fast, it won't be worth it.

What Teppy said. It might be workable for a few weeks as a freelance project, but you'd crash in a hurry trying to do it on a regular basis. I don't think that's a workable schedule for a single loner, much less for anyone with a baby, a husband, and friends.

Toured another daycare center today. Really liked the teachers, and Annabel had a blast running around the toddler room, but I still like the second place I visited better. More space, a better playground, and I like that they provide lunch.