Chiming in with a couple votes for the GCS to address the tolerance issues. I have so many friends who ARE goth but do not dress goth, (and also a fair number who dress goth but aren't goth), and the gothy ones take such abuse from the babybats out and about.
My DH is one of the True!Goths, but does not look the part, and got sick of the eye-rolling from kids who can't name Siouxsie's band. So he got me this shirt ( [link] ). I wear it as part of a full urban-goth outfit, as I like the irony.