Oh, and I am on a quest to know everything, as well as planning on doing Something Useful in my life. FYI.

I think it's a lot easier to up sticks and go to a job in another country than it would have been to move to another city in the UK where I didn't know anyone, and start over.

Provided you're not prevented by commitments like spouse/children/dog/being the only one Chosen girl in your generation who can fight to stop the powers of darkness taking over the world via a Hellmouth just round the corner from your house, I think it's pretty easy to accept a job in another country. Easier than accepting a job in another city (where you don't have any acquaintances/a support network). 'Cause going to accept a job in another country, your colleagues are in the same boat, which automatically gives you socialising opportunities. You're interesting to locals by virtue of being from an exotic locale, but equally the other expat people who are in the same boat are liable to be friendly and enjoy the chance to talk to you on the basis of shared points of reference. Whereas if you just move to another town, you don't get any shiny glow of being exotic, and nobody's going to be all "You're from such-and-such! Me too!" So that whole business of starting afresh and building yourself a social life? Harder and scarier.

I'm with Fay. I like being an expat.

Kate, that's the way I see it, too. For me, of course, it's also about G*d and religion, but in the value of the things, in themselves, not because of any other thing. I'm not sur eI'm making any sort of sense.

Actually, I would love to see you explain this idea further. Religion has so little to do with my life, and I'm really curious about how it impacts yours.

Oh, and I am on a quest to know everything, as well as planning on doing Something Useful in my life. FYI.

Jesse, you're my hero. FYI.

I've read it! I didn't post there, it feels sort of like invading to someody else's playground, but I've read it!

Hey, this is me. And may I just add... so sweet, and yay for billytea. I join in the swooning.

Also agreeing with Fay. Moving to a different country can be a harder decision to make, for various reasons--there's a lot more to take into consideration--but it does seem like it can be much easier once you actually do it.

Jesse, you're my hero. FYI.

It's easy! Just google everything at all times, and resign yourself to making less money than your friends!

(PS: aww, thanks.)

Damn! I just got an email from The Boy I Had A Crush On At School, and he's transferring to NYU! At least he's still in the city, but STILL. Bah. If there's one person I never mind hugging (besides ita, of course), it's him.

Oh, and I am on a quest to know everything, as well as planning on doing Something Useful in my life.

This is also me. I've made strides in the "know everything" department, but I still haven't figured out the Something Useful.

Timelies and gronk. This going to bed at 11 and not falling asleep until around 1am thing has got to stop. Just too much on my mind lately, I guess.